“Mommy, do you want to be thin?” My eight-year-old daughter, Lily, posed this question, leaving me momentarily speechless. It was unexpected, as I’ve never expressed a desire to be “thin.” However, given that she often witnesses my commitment to fitness and nutrition—alongside her father’s career in wellness—I wasn’t entirely surprised.
As I met her earnest gaze, I realized how critical my response would be. I am raising three daughters, and it’s vital to me that they grow up with a healthy body image. I never want them to feel inadequate or to compare themselves to others, thinking they need to look a certain way. Instead, I want them to prioritize their health and have respect for their bodies, ensuring they are valued by those around them.
It’s important to me that my daughters focus on becoming the best versions of themselves—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. After all, they won’t remember how many push-ups I could do or my race times; they probably won’t even recall what size I wore. However, they will remember that their mom was resilient and determined. They will recall that I believed in myself even when faced with challenges and that I persevered, even when quitting seemed easier.
I want my children to reflect on their upbringing and say, “Because of my mom, I never gave up.” So, without hesitation, I knelt down to meet Lily’s eyes with confidence.
“Mommy, do you?” she asked again.
“No, sweetheart. Mommy wants to be strong!” I replied.
With that, she wrapped her arms around me and whispered, nestled against my chest, “Then I want to be strong too.” This interaction reminded me of the importance of instilling strength and resilience in my daughters.
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In summary, it’s crucial that we guide our children toward valuing their health and strength rather than conforming to societal pressures about body image.