The Reason My Daughter Might React Strongly to Your Son

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It feels like just yesterday that I was navigating choices about feeding, diapering, and early discipline for my first child. However, here I am, facing a whole new set of challenges as my daughter enters seventh grade.

Twelve is such a pivotal age, marked by a wide spectrum of behaviors. While my daughter immerses herself in daydreams of being in a magical world akin to Harry Potter and still enjoys her dolls, some of her peers are already exploring dating and becoming sexually active (it’s true, whether we care to acknowledge it or not). Thankfully, my daughter shares her daily stories with me and seeks advice on what troubles her. I strive to provide her with honest and thoughtful answers.

Recently, she recounted an incident where a boy in her class snapped a girl’s bra strap. Naturally, she wanted to know how she should handle a similar situation. I contemplated my response carefully. There were several paths I could take, but I opted for a straightforward approach—one that I believe will serve her well down the line. However, for those of you raising sons, you might want to take heed of the advice I imparted to her.