In a world rife with parenting debates—where factions like the breastfeeding advocates, the anti-vaccine crowd, and the trendy mom influencers clash—there’s a new category emerging: the ‘No-Apologies’ mom. Critics can criticize, but this mom confidently marches to the beat of her own drum.
So, are you a “No-Apologies” mom?
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You took the plunge and pooped during childbirth. While some might find it mortifying, you see it as proof of your impressive multitasking skills. Not only did you deliver a tiny human, but you also tackled that postpartum poop. Applause all around!
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You’re keen on raising cultured kids—or maybe you just had a last-minute babysitter cancel. Either way, a date night is non-negotiable, even if that means bringing your little one to a high-end sushi place. Stink-eye from other patrons? No biggie—mama deserves a night out!
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You unapologetically enjoy a bit of day drinking. If your kids get to nap daily, why shouldn’t you unwind with a glass of wine at 2:00 PM?
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You embrace authenticity and don’t stress about tidying up before guests arrive. Crumbs on the couch and sticky spots on the table? That’s just life with kids. You refuse to set unrealistic expectations for future visits.
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You take your baby on long flights without distributing treat bags. Babies deserve to travel too, and you’re not about to apologize for your little one’s natural behavior.
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Disheveled hair? Yoga pants? You flaunt your mom look like it’s haute couture. There’s no shame in sporting that “I’m a busy mom” style!
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You’ve weighed the pros and cons of sleep training and co-sleeping—and you’ve tried both. A well-rested family is your ultimate goal, even if it means going against the grain.
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You might be guilty of oversharing your baby’s adorable photos on social media, but you’re not sorry about it. Your timeline is your canvas, and have you seen those chubby cheeks? Pure gold!
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In public, when your baby dives into your chest like a squirrel foraging for acorns, you don’t hesitate to nurse, shawl or no shawl. A hungry baby takes priority, and no setting will deter you from feeding her.
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Whether you work outside the home or are a stay-at-home mom, whether you breastfeed or bottle-feed, you own your choices. Judgment from others rolls off you like water off a duck’s back—you’re focused on what’s best for your child.
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In summary, being a ‘No-Apologies’ mom means embracing your parenting style without fear of judgment. You know what’s best for your kids, and you’re confident in your choices, even if they don’t align with conventional norms.