I have no regrets about being a working mom, and I want you to know that. While many mothers struggle with this choice, I stand firm in my decision. When I leave for work in the morning, I’m not sad to see you smiling, eager for the day ahead with your friends. I want you to enjoy those moments, even if I’m not there to witness them.
I take pride in the fact that you have such a close bond with your grandparents—Nana, Gigi, and Pops—who step in and help while I’m busy working. Your connection with them is something that many children miss out on. And because of my career, you spend valuable time with your fully capable dad, who is an amazing caregiver.
It warms my heart to see you forming relationships with our caregivers, too. The more love and support you have surrounding you, the better it is for your growth. You also get to witness both of us sharing household responsibilities, which teaches you that teamwork is essential. We strive to juggle our schedules together, even if it’s not always perfect.
While I may have less time with you, I firmly believe that the quality of our moments together outweighs the quantity. It’s crucial for you to understand the difference between simply being present and being genuinely attentive. Research indicates that my role as a working mom enhances your future prospects, dear daughter, as you’re likely to pursue higher education and earn a better income. And for you, my son, studies suggest that you’ll be more engaged in caring for your own children one day because of my example.
I’m grateful that my job allows us to live in a great school district and enjoy a spacious backyard. Equally important, I find fulfillment in my career, and I believe that a happy, fulfilled mom is the best mom.
Despite my contentment, I do have worries. I sometimes fear you might envy friends whose moms are home with them. I think about how disappointed you might feel when I miss a soccer game or a band concert. I worry that one day you could sit in therapy, connecting any struggles back to those moments when I was busy meeting deadlines. I also hope you recognize that many moms work, even if my circle includes many stay-at-home mothers.
Yet, gratitude outweighs my worries. I’m thankful that you see both your parents challenging traditional gender roles, and this will likely empower you to feel liberated from those expectations. I appreciate our nearby family who can lend a hand, as I know many parents don’t have that support. Most importantly, I cherish the end of our long days together, when I tuck you in and receive your sweet, sloppy kisses and heartfelt “I love you, Mommy.”
Remember, my working doesn’t diminish the love we share.
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In summary, while I embrace my role as a working mom, I also carry worries about how it may affect you. I believe in the importance of quality time and the value of love in our family. My hope is that you grow up with a strong sense of independence and support from both your parents.