As you continue to grow, here are several truths to keep in mind:
1. You’ll Face Small Disappointments
From outgrowing your tricycle after a single ride to missing out on kiddie rides at amusement parks, there will be moments that feel frustrating. Your favorite purple jacket may suddenly end three inches above your wrists. Piggyback rides will be a rarity, and those Dora the Explorer light-up sneakers you adore simply won’t be available in your size. I genuinely apologize for all of these letdowns.
2. Your Height Will Be Obvious to Everyone
No matter how much you try to hunch your shoulders or curl up in your seat, your height is undeniable. Instead of blending in, you may become known as “the tall girl with poor posture.” Unlike shorter girls who can wear heels to gain a little extra height, you’ll have to learn to own your stature confidently.
3. People May Assume You Have Certain Talents
When I was younger, being selected first for sports teams felt thrilling, even though I had no real athletic skills. My height led others to assume I was a star player. If people mistake your long limbs for athletic prowess, don’t bother correcting them. By the time they realize the truth, you may already be leading the team!
4. You’ll Be Mistaken for Older
In middle school, I played an orphan in a production of Annie, and while I donned pigtails and overalls, I looked old enough to have my own apartment! As you walk around cuddling your stuffed animal or throwing a playful tantrum, people may mistake you for being older than you are. When they learn you’re only two years old, their astonishment will be palpable. Just remember, looking older doesn’t mean you have to act older, especially when faced with high school peer pressure.
5. Friendship is Not About Size
While you may not fit into the “sisterhood of traveling pants” concept with your friends, height won’t matter when you’re enjoying lunch together or jumping around pretending the floor is lava. I had a best friend in high school who was only 5 feet tall, and I didn’t even realize it for three years!
6. Height Can Impact Romantic Relationships
My husband jokes that if he were shorter, we might not have ended up together. While this is said in jest, there’s some truth here. You may find that some people feel intimidated by your height. As you navigate crushes, you might fall for the shortest boy in class or feel exasperated when you see a tall man dating someone petite. Ultimately, you’ll have to determine what you’re comfortable with in a partner’s height.
7. You May Be Seen as More Responsible
At summer camp, I was once mistaken for a counselor due to my size, and I was handed a stack of forms to distribute. Even though I was only nine, people will project responsibilities onto you based on your appearance. Whether it’s leading group projects or babysitting, just because you look mature doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy the perks.
8. Everyone Will Recognize You as My Daughter
Together, we’ll stand like two towering skyscrapers in a small town, and there’s nowhere to go but up.
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In summary, being the tall girl comes with its unique set of experiences. Embrace your height, tackle the challenges with confidence, and remember that true friendships and love transcend physical attributes.