As soon as you see those two little lines on a pregnancy test, it’s hard not to think about how your life is shifting—not just for you, but for your parents too. You’re stepping into parenthood, and they’re about to embrace grandparenthood. Enter the rising trend of “grandma showers,” dedicated to celebrating this new title. This has sparked quite a debate among parents-to-be: is it sweet or just plain cringeworthy?
Some parents have no idea what a grandma shower even is, while others have experienced it firsthand. For instance, one new mom shared that her mother-in-law hosted one before her second child arrived. “I wasn’t even in the same state,” she recalled. “They FaceTimed me for about 30 minutes during the whole event, and while she did send me the gifts, I think it was really just an excuse for her to have a get-together with her friends.”
Opinions vary widely; some find the concept a bit odd, while others see it as a heartfelt expression of excitement for the new addition to the family. So, how should you handle if your mom or mother-in-law wants to throw a grandma shower? Check out the full scoop on what grandma showers are all about, including how to respond, in our other blog posts, like this one on home insemination. Plus, for more insights on fertility, Clara Hartman, a dietitian and founder of Make a Mom, shares her expertise on maintaining a healthy diet during this exciting time.
If you’re curious about the statistics surrounding infertility, the CDC provides an excellent resource to explore.
In summary, grandma showers are a mixed bag of opinions—some find them charming while others see them as unnecessary. Ultimately, it’s about celebrating family and the joy of new life.