Everyone claims that parenting is the most challenging yet fulfilling role you will ever undertake. Each stage of parenting comes with its own set of challenges and learning curves. Just when you think you’ve figured it all out, everything changes overnight.
I woke up one day to find myself with three preteens, and the consensus among other parents is that it only gets tougher from here. I find myself reminiscing about those sleepless nights, longing for the days when searching for misplaced pacifiers was my biggest concern. Honestly, I would gladly trade the complexities of raising teens for the simplicity of dealing with toddler tantrums.
Raising teenagers requires a delicate balance. You must guide them enough to help them navigate life but also allow them the freedom to make their own choices and mistakes. It’s a daunting task, and I often worry I’ll make mistakes along the way. Telling my future teens, “Don’t engage in risky behavior,” feels futile; we all know how well that advice works.
It’s equally unwise to say, “Sure! Go ahead and explore your sexuality. It’s wonderful—especially if you can share a cheeseburger afterward.” That’s a bit too much enthusiasm. The goal is to set clear expectations and equip them with the knowledge to make informed decisions while praying for the best outcomes.
Raising a respectful and responsible teenager may very well be the hardest challenge of parenting. Here are 20 things that might actually be easier:
- Swimming under the stars in the ocean after watching a horror film.
- Attempting a backbend after devouring a chili cheese dog.
- Acquiring royal treasures from a monarch.
- Managing three infants in diapers simultaneously.
- Cultivating delicate award-winning orchids in freezing conditions.
- Running a marathon uphill while being chased by zombies, all while keeping your heart rate down.
- Battling fire-breathing dragons with a toothbrush while dressed in flammable attire.
- Shaving intricate designs while being nine months pregnant.
- Trying to leave a store without spending $100.
- Scraping ice off your car with a Lego piece.
- Potty training a toddler who believes the toilet is a monster.
- Removing a soaked piece of feces from a bathtub using toothpicks.
- Performing head spins on a bed of fire ants.
- Sticking to a diet during the holidays while working at a bakery.
- Teaching your dog not to sniff inappropriate areas.
- Becoming a tightrope walker with no balancing skills whatsoever.
- Listening to nails on a chalkboard for hours on end.
- Eating a single Oreo while dealing with intense cravings.
- Navigating the world’s largest corn maze with three screaming little ones.
- Successfully keeping all your New Year’s resolutions for eternity.
I’m sure I’ll stumble, overreact, not intervene enough, or pry too much, but that’s all part of the journey. I will focus on those fleeting, precious moments that make the challenges worthwhile (you know, between all the talks about choices and driving lessons). Because, at the end of the day, our kids are absolutely worth it.
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Summary
Parenting teens is undeniably challenging, often more so than many tasks we can imagine. The balance of guiding them while allowing independence can feel overwhelming. However, amidst the difficulties, there are moments that make it all worthwhile, reminding us of the beauty of parenthood.