Hey there, you—the twenty-something in snug leggings and a halter top, standing in line behind me with your organic quinoa salad, pint of ice cream, and six-pack of Corona. I couldn’t help but notice your gaze; perhaps you’re wishing to step into my shoes someday. And honestly, who could blame you?
I remember my twenties vividly. Sure, living it up on weekends and indulging in happy hour during the week was exhilarating. The ease of ordering clothing online that actually fit my body was a luxury I took for granted. And the joy of watching shows when they aired—without spoilers from morning radio hosts—was a delightful perk. Yet there was a deeper layer of adulthood I hadn’t tapped into yet—the kind that makes a woman feel truly adept at navigating a grocery store.
I get it. You see me in my yoga pants and ponytail, looking carefree as I maneuver my cart overflowing with juice boxes and Go-Gurt, expertly shutting down my kids’ candy pleas while pulling out a stack of coupons that are about to get doubled, along with my store loyalty card that benefits my child’s school. I am such an adult. The kind of adult that you, with your “bills” and “jobs” and “responsibilities,” can only dream of being. You can admit it—there’s a part of you that envies my ability to spend $245.67 on groceries without a second thought and prioritize my family’s needs over looking polished in public. You want to own that grocery store like I do.
Unfortunately, I can’t wave a magic wand and make that happen for you. Much of the aura you admire comes with time and the relentless journey of parenthood. You won’t truly master the grocery store until you can confidently navigate the baby food aisle. Think choosing cereal is challenging? Try deciphering endless rows of tiny jars while racing against the clock to get in and out of the store with children in tow. But I digress.
I can, however, offer you some tips to jump-start your transformation into the kind of woman who commands respect in the grocery aisle. Sure, some people might sidestep you to avoid toddler tantrums and sticky fingers from free cookies in the bakery, but there’s a certain look that embodies Grocery Store Diva—and it’s easier to achieve than you might think.
1. Maternity Wear is Not Just for Expecting Moms.
Yes, you read that right. Check out this flowy, oh-so-comfy top I’m wearing—it used to accommodate my baby bump. Forget the fact that my youngest is now six years old. Those trendy shirts from The Limited? They don’t hide the post-baby jiggle that you don’t yet have, but can easily start to simulate. The bonus? You’ll stop getting carded at the store, and cashiers will start calling you “ma’am.” Instant adulthood.
2. Embrace a Dull Complexion.
My lackluster skin is the result of a two-step process: buying whatever face cream is on sale and then falling asleep before I can use it. It’s surprisingly easy to keep up with.
3. Cultivate Those Dark Circles.
Just because I often skip my beauty routine doesn’t mean I’m enjoying peaceful nights. Since you likely don’t have kids waking you up at odd hours, consider setting your alarm for 1 a.m., 3 a.m., and 5 a.m. You’ll develop those coveted dark circles in no time.
So, dear twenty-something, these three beauty hacks will set you on the path to grocery store greatness, to fully embracing adulthood. But wait—what’s this? Oh, it appears I have a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle sticker stuck to my backside. How charming.
By the way, I have a coupon for that quinoa if you’re interested.
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In summary, navigating adulthood—and grocery stores—requires a bit of finesse, humor, and a willingness to embrace the chaos. With these tips, you’ll be one step closer to grocery store mastery and the joys of adulthood.