Dear Charlie,
As you approach your 6th birthday, I find myself wishing I could pause time to cherish the moments with you, my gentle soul. Your sensitivity and kindness are often misunderstood, especially in boys. Society sometimes views your empathy and the tears that come easily as signs of weakness, labeling them as “feminine.” Never let anyone make you feel inferior for being true to yourself.
There’s so much I want to share with you about how to treat the girls in your life. If I could wish for one thing, it would be for you to view every girl with the same honor and respect that you have for me. I admire your optimistic perspective on the world, and as you grow, I hope you will always approach girls with your heart first, then your eyes. See them for who they truly are—their minds, their hearts, and their spirits. Always respect their boundaries; they are in charge of their own bodies.
Be the one who stands up against the boys who objectify girls. Show them that kindness and gentleness are strengths. Teach them that a girl is your equal in every way. Encourage the girls around you to embrace positivity despite negativity. Use your remarkable ability to connect with others to inspire change among your peers. Remember the wise words your dad has shared about respecting girls. He is a role model, standing firm for equality.
I understand that life can be challenging for a sensitive boy like you. Don’t ever allow the opinions of others to define you. You possess a unique strength within that tender heart of yours. Lead by example and encourage others to strive for their best selves.
You are resilient, compassionate, strong, and humorous—all these qualities belong in your life. If you ever feel uncertain about yourself, remember what Molly Lou Melon’s grandma said: “Smile big and the world will smile right alongside of you.”
With all my love,
Mom
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In summary, embrace your sensitivity, treat others with respect, and know that your strengths can lead to a kinder world.