Dear Parents,
Responding to an invitation is as simple as a click—no need for stamps, pens, or even leaving your cozy bed! It takes mere seconds of your time, yet somehow, it seems to slip through the cracks. I noticed you viewed the invitation yesterday at 10:16 a.m., and your child mentioned to my daughter just days ago that he would be attending. So, what’s the hold-up? Are you hesitant to commit? If you’re unsure, just select “Decide Later.” That’s the beauty of technology!
RSVPing online is easier than getting dressed in the morning! And let’s be real—many parents drop off their kids at school in pajama bottoms, coffee in hand. I understand; adulting can be a challenge.
Lost in your inbox? No worries! I sent out not one, but two reminders. That gives you three chances to respond. Yet, it seems the RSVP isn’t viewed as important. Neither is letting me know how much pizza to order, how big of a cake to get, or how many goodie bags to prepare. But hey, I’ll just plan for the whole class and siblings, right?
Fast forward to party day: suddenly, it seems convenient for you to drop off both kids, even if only one was invited. And while I appreciate your spontaneity, it’s a pool party for 8-year-olds, and your younger child can’t swim. You casually ask if the party host is a guardian and throw a life jacket on your little one. It’s an interesting approach to parenting, to say the least.
I get overwhelmed when I have to play both babysitter and lifeguard at my daughter’s birthday. I chose to have one child for a reason—I like things manageable.
Rest assured, your son was not left to fend for himself. While you took some time for yourself, I had to keep an eye on him and the others. It’s a common courtesy to RSVP and to ensure that only those invited attend. You weren’t the only one; a couple of other parents dropped off extra siblings too, but at least they were old enough to swim.
When did it become acceptable to bring the whole family to a party meant for one child? Growing up, my siblings and I didn’t get to attend parties together, and no one was allowed to complain about it. If this is about fairness, then maybe it’s best to just stay home. Or tell your younger child to toughen up when the older sibling returns home with party favors. Whatever you choose to do is not my concern.
I shouldn’t be too harsh; you did bring a gift to a no-gift party—a 2,000-piece kitten puzzle. What a delightful way to unwind after a chaotic day with 27 kids. I’m sure it will be a blast.
While I’m not expecting a thank you, I will be sending a note your way regarding the lovely puzzle. Enjoy your coffee!
Sincerely,
A Frustrated Parent