As a busy soccer mom in my 30s, I’m on the lookout for that special friend who can become my ultimate BFF. If you’re a neat freak who lives for CrossFit, you might want to pass on this. Clean eating is great, but only if you’re willing to indulge in the occasional frozen yogurt at the kid-friendly spot we adore.
I’m in need of someone who is kind, understanding, and can appreciate the quiet moments spent on my couch, watching my toddler play while I ramble on about the same five subjects over and over. I don’t expect frequent calls, but I’d love to share texts and social media interactions. You should be someone who doesn’t feel the need to judge or intimidate. If I’m still lounging in my glasses and flannel pajamas at noon, I hope you won’t mention it to my husband or my mom.
You should be outgoing, with a strong sense of self and style that you’re happy to share. Confidence is key; our friendship shouldn’t feel like a competition. It won’t matter whose partner earns more or who has the bigger house; at this stage in life, that’s just not relevant.
Adventure is calling! Whether it’s trying out a pole dancing class or packing the kids for a beach day, I hope you’re in. You enjoy reading and recognize that 50 Shades of Grey isn’t exactly literary gold, so you wouldn’t splurge your hard-earned cash on it or suggest a movie night to watch it. While you may have had your wild days, motherhood has likely mellowed you out. Caffeine is your only vice now, and you enjoy a glass of wine, but three Long Island iced teas in an hour? No thanks.
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I’m looking for a friend who isn’t interested in using me as a stepping stone in any social hierarchy. Whether you belong to a country club or not doesn’t matter to me. You won’t ghost me for a newer, more glamorous mom who catches your eye, nor will you pressure me to host a party for purses, jewelry, or cleaning products. Your motives should be genuine; you just want to be friends.
It’s important that you still have hope despite past disappointments in friendships. I’ve been searching for someone like you for quite some time, and if we cross paths at this point in our busy lives, I’m ready to invest in making this friendship flourish. I hope you are too.
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In summary, I’m a 30-something soccer mom looking for a genuine friendship with someone who shares similar values and experiences, ready to embrace the chaos of life together.