I often find myself in the position of being “that” mom—the one whose child disrupts the tranquility of others with loud outbursts or boundless energy. Sure, I try to rein my kid in when necessary, but there are moments when you simply have to accept that peace and quiet are not guaranteed. If you’re in my space, you should be prepared for some noise. Here are seven scenarios where we parents shouldn’t feel the need to apologize for our lively kids:
- At an animated film screening before 7 p.m. I understand that you might appreciate the artistry of animated films, but if you’re attending a matinee meant for children, you should expect some commotion. When my daughter is asking questions about the plot or dancing in her seat to the catchy soundtrack, it’s part of the experience. If you want a quiet movie, consider attending the evening showing.
- On a flight to popular vacation spots during school breaks. Yes, that’s my toddler wailing and my preschooler in a meltdown about their seat choice. We’re all in the same boat, and trust me, it’s not exactly a vacation for me either, so just bear with it.
- In a grocery store during the day. The supermarket is practically my second home. While I’d love to enjoy my shopping trip in peace, that’s often unrealistic. If my child is throwing a fit over not getting a giant pack of sugary drinks, just know you should have anticipated some chaos in the aisles.
- At a family-friendly restaurant before 7 p.m. If you’re dining at a place with a kids’ menu, you should expect some noise. My child might be upset over their food touching or distracted by a video game. If you’re looking for a quiet meal, there are plenty of fine dining options nearby.
- In a store for children’s clothing. While you might be shopping for a gift, my child is likely to treat the store like a playground, running around and causing a ruckus. If that doesn’t sit well with you, consider online shopping instead.
- In a park with a playground. It’s wonderful that you’ve come to relax with a book, but when there’s a playground nearby, expect children to be loud and energetic. My kid and her friends will be playing and having fun, so if you’re looking for tranquility, you might want to find a different spot.
- In a toy store or at Chuck E. Cheese’s. Honestly, if you’re here, you should expect some noise. Kids are going to be excited and loud, so just embrace it.
Unfortunately, I’ve realized that these moments of chaos can often lead to frustration for others. I promise I won’t sit idly by while my child causes a ruckus, but let’s be real—there are times when kids will be kids. For more insights on parenting and related topics, check out this article on home insemination kits, and for information on pregnancy, visit this excellent resource. If you’re looking to cherish today for a brighter tomorrow, this guide is a great read.
In summary, while we strive for peace, it’s important to acknowledge that kids will be kids, and certain environments are naturally chaotic. Don’t expect silence in places meant for family fun.