Hey there, I see you from afar, and I must confess—I’m observing you closely.
I notice how you grasp your child’s hand in the parking lot, even as he wriggles like a fish trying to escape your grasp. You lift him into the air, and despite the exhaustion that comes from managing a miniature whirlwind, you turn him upside down and tickle his belly. His delighted laughter echoes all the way over here.
Juggling Life’s Responsibilities
I can picture your life. Perhaps you juggle a job, or maybe you’re a stay-at-home parent. You reassure yourself that everything will turn out fine, yet deep down, you question whether you’ve made the right choices.
As I watch, you kneel down and gently grasp your daughter’s chin, forcing her to meet your gaze. You’re outside an ice cream shop, feeling frustrated because she just hit her sister. Still, you speak softly, mindful not to embarrass her. I can tell you’re thinking, “I just want to raise kind kids,” but I bet you don’t voice that frustration.
The Weight of Responsibility
You look worn out, occasionally glancing around as if bewildered by the swarm of kids insisting that you are their mom. They cling to you, noisy and sticky, but I can see how you pour every ounce of yourself into caring for them.
I witness you tenderly wiping away your little girl’s tears after she tumbles while running too fast—she took a spill, soaring like a superhero before crashing. She looks to you for comfort, knowing you’ll be there. You maintain your composure, aware that if you panic, she will too.
The Depth of Love
I notice how much you cherish him as he climbs onto your lap, resting his hand on your cheek to seek your attention. You pause mid-conversation with a friend, and the brightness in your eyes shifts. It’s as if you’re realizing just how deeply love can run.
As you drive, she cries because the sun is blinding her. You quickly remove your sunglasses and hand them over to her.
Finding Moments of Connection
At the playground, you pull out your phone and snap some photos, because honestly, how adorable are they? Then you check social media, craving a brief interaction with another adult. I saw someone without kids advise you to savor every moment while glancing pointedly at your phone. Don’t worry; I’d trip them for you if I could.
Self-Reflection and Doubt
I also see how you’re hard on yourself daily. You may ask, “Am I doing enough? Are my kids okay? Have I somehow messed them up? Am I enough?” But let me tell you, I’m here observing and judging—and if you could see yourself as I do, you’d realize that yes, you are enough.
Additional Resources
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Conclusion
In summary, parenting is a challenging yet rewarding journey filled with moments of self-doubt, love, and connection. Remember, even in your toughest times, you are doing enough.