Dear children,
As I pen this letter, you are just a few years old—18 months and 3 years, to be precise. Yet, I can already see how adept you are with technology, navigating the tablet with a skill that surpasses mine. You belong to a generation that will be immersed in a world of digital devices and instant connectivity.
Reflecting on my own childhood, our entertainment didn’t come from apps or streaming services. We thrived without smartphones and constant Wi-Fi access. Our home phones were tethered to the wall, and if we needed to make a call while away from home, we relied on old-fashioned pay phones.
In those days, there was no Google or Siri to satisfy our curiosity. If we wanted to learn something new, we had to dive into encyclopedias and navigate card catalogs at the library. And when it came to finding our way, we had to ask for directions or unfold cumbersome paper maps.
By the time you read this, technology may have evolved in ways we can’t even imagine. Perhaps you’ll be preoccupied with more pressing issues, such as dealing with a robot uprising! Regardless, here are some insights for navigating your journey in a world filled with immediate access to information:
Prioritize Unplugging
While phones, video games, and streaming services can be enjoyable, balance is key. You won’t find joy in reminiscing about social media posts, so focus on creating lasting memories.
Engage in Real Conversations
With smartphones in hand, I’ve noticed groups of teens together, yet they seem more interested in their screens than each other. Remember, meaningful connections and eye contact are irreplaceable.
Practice Good Manners
Treat others as you wish to be treated. A simple smile and a positive demeanor can go a long way. Always remember to say “please” and “thank you.”
Accountability Matters
Online anonymity often breeds unkind behavior. A good guideline is to never say anything online that you wouldn’t say face-to-face. Strive to be respectful, both in-person and virtually.
Be Your Own Advocate
Avoid the toxic corners of the Internet, like comment sections filled with negativity. Stand up for yourself and your beliefs, but discern which battles are worth your energy.
Make Smart Choices
Think about the long-term consequences of your online actions. Be cautious about what you share and avoid sending compromising photos—they can end up in unexpected places.
Cultivate a Love for Reading
I encourage you to read often, especially books made of paper, if they still exist when you grow up. Discover the stories that ignite your passion for literature and keep that flame alive.
Develop Strong Writing Skills
In a world dominated by emojis and acronyms, effective communication through written words remains essential. Take care with spelling and grammar; they matter more than you might think.
Find What Sparks Joy
Embrace your creativity—spend time on music and art. Surround yourself with friends who inspire and uplift you.
Seek Adventure
Spend time outdoors, and don’t settle for simply viewing photos of places. Experience the world firsthand—feel the earth beneath your feet and let nature remind you of your place in it.
While you may have the answers to many of life’s questions at your fingertips, I hope that it doesn’t dampen your curiosity. Immerse yourselves in experiences and cherish those moments. And who knows? Maybe one day, teleportation will be a reality, allowing you to explore the world even further.
With all my love,
Mom