Parenting is no small feat. We pour our hearts and souls into raising our children because we love them deeply. We created them, nurtured them for months, and now we’re here, navigating this challenging journey.
Let’s be real: sometimes, motherhood can feel utterly overwhelming. I recently spoke with an old college friend, a brilliant woman with an unwavering spirit. Now that she’s a mom, certain people have made her feel inferior because of it, and that infuriated me. It made me realize how essential it is for moms to have affirmations to uplift themselves. We need to remind ourselves of our strength and worth. So here they are: Momfirmations. Use them to empower yourself every day—whether you’re getting ready in the morning, nursing, or even taking a moment for yourself.
Momfirmations
- “I’m a powerhouse.” I brought a child into this world. Whether through birth, adoption, or as a surrogate, I am a force to be reckoned with.
- “I am a person with emotions.” Once you become a mom, it can feel like your identity disappears, and all focus shifts to your child. But remember, you are a person, too, deserving of love and care.
- “They don’t know my story.” When strangers give you judgmental looks, remind yourself, “They don’t know me.” If they have a negative opinion about your parenting, it’s their issue, not yours.
- “They can’t comprehend my journey.” This is for those friends who don’t understand the challenges of motherhood. You juggle so much with limited hands while they may not grasp the realities you face. It’s okay to step back from those who don’t appreciate your journey.
- “You are capable. You will succeed. You excel at this.” On tough days, remember that your kids rely on you. They are thriving because of your love and care. You are irreplaceable in their lives.
The truth about motherhood isn’t hidden; it’s simply about embracing the beautiful moments. The ones when your little one smiles at you, says “Mama,” or enjoys a meal you prepared with love. These moments are the secret to getting through the tough times. Keep them close; they are your anchor when life feels chaotic.
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In summary, being a mom can be tough, but it’s essential to recognize your strength. Embrace those little moments that make it all worthwhile and use affirmations to remind yourself of your worth every day. You’ve got this!