As a mother of seven, my love for children has always been profound, but the thought of my little ones growing up and leaving home has been a lingering concern. However, as the time approaches, my perspective is shifting. Instead of focusing solely on what I’ll miss, I’m beginning to recognize the advantages of an empty nest.
Many of my friends have already entered this stage of life and have taken on the delightful role of grandparents. They make it seem appealing, and I find myself transitioning from apprehension to excitement about this new phase. The familiar sounds of tiny footsteps have been replaced with the heavy thuds of growing boys, and the playful noise has gradually escalated to raucous laughter and loud music. With a house filled with instruments ranging from trumpets to guitars, I often think about how I’ll finally enjoy the tranquility that comes with the silence of my golden years.
This peace will be precious, especially during those leisurely afternoon naps that are a staple of retirement. With children around, napping has often been a challenge for light sleepers like me. Moreover, the bliss of sleeping in without being jolted awake by a slamming door or a child seeking my assistance will be a welcome change.
For years, I’ve lamented the toys strewn about the house, thinking I would miss them when they’re gone. Now, I realize I won’t. The prospect of a tidy home that stays clean for more than a few hours is incredibly appealing. I envision planting flowers in the yard where bicycles and soccer balls used to clutter the space.
Cooking will also take on a new form. No longer will I need to cater to the individual tastes of multiple children; I can include pecans in my cookies, onions in my meatloaf, and peas in our salads without a second thought. Dining out will be a pleasure, as my husband and I can enjoy a meal without a family vote and even hold hands across the table without eliciting embarrassed remarks.
The benefits of an empty nest extend beyond peace and quiet. I’ll be able to shower uninterrupted, no longer waiting up for children to return from their activities before I can sleep. I will no longer need to wash uniforms or assist with last-minute projects. Financially, the reduction in electric, water, phone, car insurance, and grocery bills will be significant. I’ve dreamed of transforming the kids’ rooms into a sewing space, an office, or a guest bedroom, and now I’ll have the opportunity to do just that.
Of course, my children will always be welcome to visit their childhood home—I just hope they call first. I might be enjoying a peaceful nap in the living room, blissfully undisturbed.
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Summary:
As the author prepares for an empty nest after raising seven children, she reflects on the joys and benefits this new stage will bring. From enjoying peace and quiet to having a clean home and cooking without limitations, the transition to an empty nest is viewed with excitement and anticipation.