Dear New Mom: It’s Time for a Shower

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Congratulations on your new journey into motherhood! Just a few weeks ago, you left home with a baby bump that seemed impossible and returned with a precious little one in your arms. Your baby is absolutely adorable! She has your sparkling eyes, your partner’s adorable nose, and those impossibly tiny ears—seriously, did you ever think ears could be that small?

These initial weeks must feel like a beautiful whirlwind. I hope your little one is feeding well and that you’re managing to catch some rest amidst the chaos. Don’t stress about the messy house, unanswered emails, or thank-you notes for now. Focus on resting, bonding, and cherishing every moment with your new bundle of joy.

However, when you find a moment—between feedings, diaper changes, and soothing—could you please squeeze in a shower? Forget about shaving your legs, putting on makeup, or styling your hair. Just a simple shower with soap and shampoo would do wonders. You might have something on your shoulder that isn’t just baby drool, and let’s be honest, it’s probably not your baby that’s emitting that scent right now.

I understand how overwhelming it can be. Each day flies by in a blur of activity, and before you know it, you’re still in those same maternity leggings you wore home from the hospital. But you must carve out some time for yourself. Whether it means asking your partner to take a day off work or calling a friend, someone needs to step in and hold that baby while you take a moment to refresh.

You may be thinking, “There’s no time!” as you replay the past few days, searching for a spare minute. I get it. But no one is going to create those minutes for you; it’s up to you to make it happen. Whether it’s while your little one is in a swing just outside the bathroom door or even during a rare moment when you should be sleeping—find a way to make it happen. They say babyhood is fleeting but can feel long, so if you don’t prioritize some self-care now, the days will stretch on.

Start today, and then continue to make that time every day after. You are doing incredible things, nurturing a life and keeping it thriving. Keep feeding, changing, bathing, and adoring your beautiful baby, but don’t forget to carve out some minutes just for you. Those moments of solitude are essential. And let’s be real, dry shampoo and air freshener only go so far; a shower will truly help you feel rejuvenated.

So, take this moment, Mama—make it your priority to step away, indulge in a shower, and wash away the remnants of the day, including that crusty hair tip that may have seen better days.

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In summary, prioritize self-care amid the whirlwind of new motherhood. Remember, taking time for a shower isn’t just a luxury; it’s a necessity for your well-being.