It feels like just yesterday I was knee-deep in diapers, watching cartoons, prepping for kindergarten, and shopping for tiny clothes. Those days are long gone, and while it’s a bittersweet transition, it’s certainly not sad. I’m not as completely drained as before, but let me tell you—keeping up with a tween girl is exhausting! Even though we’ve all experienced being a tween ourselves, it’s a different challenge when you’re navigating this phase with your own daughter.
- Earbuds Are Essential Accessories
“WHAT?” she responds, her face glued to her iPod Touch. You’ve called her name several times, and it takes multiple loud calls to finally grab her attention. Earbuds get plugged in faster than you can say “shopping spree.” - Minecraft Mania
Once upon a time, she was all about playing Minecraft, but now it’s all about watching YouTube videos of the game. Stampy, PopularMMOs, and Ssundee are just a few names that echo through the house. Thank goodness for those earbuds—my ears can only handle so much of “HELLOOOooooooo!!! This is STAMPY!!!” - Best Friends, Then Enemies
One day, my daughter is all about her best friend, Lucy, and the next, she’s convinced Lucy is her sworn enemy. “What happened?” I ask, only to receive a dismissive “Nothing. She just hates me.” A week later, they’re besties again. I’ve learned to respond with phrases like, “I’m sure it’s nothing,” because this too shall pass. - Shaving Questions
When did girls start asking to shave their legs at 9? I remember it being a middle school thing! She’s persistent, especially after a comment from a boy about her leg hair. I decided to let her make the choice, remembering my own awkward first attempt with a razor. - Movies to Share
The silver lining of having a tween daughter is that you can share movie nights. The downside? You both want to watch the same flicks, which can turn into a debate over what to see. - Mom, Can I Have a Hug?
While she’s definitely not a little kid anymore, my tween hasn’t quite hit that “don’t touch me” teenage stage. Random hugs in the kitchen and goodnight snuggles are still part of our routine, and I’m cherishing every moment. - Wit and Opinions
The toddler years were physically exhausting, but I wasn’t prepared for the mental gymnastics that come with a witty tween. She’s opinionated and has a knack for making a strong case for her side of things. It’s draining yet impressive; I see so much of myself in her. - A Love for Babies
Tween girls have an undeniable affinity for babies and toddlers. Whenever we’re at a gathering, my daughter is the one swooping in to entertain the little ones. I know she secretly wishes for a sibling, but two kids are plenty for us—thank you very much! - Sleep Schedule Shift
After years of early mornings, our household has finally embraced sleep. My tween still goes to bed relatively early, but she also enjoys sleeping in until 9 a.m. on weekends. This gives me precious time to enjoy my coffee in peace while her little brother keeps me company. - Nostalgia Alert
Those late-’80s styles I remember? They’re back! From off-the-shoulder tees to endless reruns of classic shows, every day I’m reminded of my own awkward middle school days as my daughter discovers her new favorites.
Sure, my tween can test my patience with her eye rolls and “Yeah, buts…” but I can’t deny her good heart and can-do attitude. It’s inspiring to see her confidence grow, and I hope she keeps that spirit.
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