Before welcoming our third child, our weekends were filled with lively dinner parties, casual brunches, and spontaneous get-togethers with neighbors. However, as life got busier, invitations dwindled, and we found ourselves on the other side of the equation, hesitating to extend our own. I understand the challenges—balancing family life, work demands, and the endless to-do lists can make hosting feel overwhelming. Yet, in a world dominated by digital interactions, I still yearn for genuine, face-to-face connections. Here are seven reasons you might be hesitant to invite me over and why you really should:
- I Haven’t Hosted You Lately
It’s true that I may have dropped the ball on invites, but someone has to break the ice. Want to play rock-paper-scissors for it? - Your Home Isn’t Perfect
Perhaps you’ve visited my place and noticed its neatness, which is largely thanks to my house cleaner. Your home may be a bit chaotic—spaghetti sauce on the counter, stray socks, or even the occasional pet mishap—but that doesn’t bother me. What truly matters is the company, not the condition of your space. - Hosting a Family Feels Daunting
I get it; a family of five can be a handful. But trust me, my kids are generally more well-behaved when they’re guests. Plus, my older two (ages 11 and 14) are practically miniature babysitters! - The Cost of Hosting
It can be pricey to host a meal, but it doesn’t have to be. Just invite us for drinks or snacks. If you’d like dinner, let me bring a dish or dessert. I’m always down for a casual gathering, and I’ll happily bring the wine—don’t worry if you forget! - Cooking Isn’t Your Thing
Who said we need a gourmet meal? We can order pizza, grab takeout, or even just share a few snacks. I can bring a bag of pretzels and a bottle of gin, and we can call it a night. The focus should be on good company rather than elaborate meals. - You Think I’m Busy
My schedule is packed with everyday errands and obligations, not necessarily fun. While I occasionally have a girls’ weekend or visit my parents, I promise I’m not busier than you. We all need to eat—so why not do it together? - You’re Just Exhausted
Feeling tired is completely understandable, and I get that you might want your evenings to yourself. Just remember, I’m navigating the challenges of raising a teenager, a tween, and a spirited toddler. Our visits are low-key, and we’ll be out before the clock strikes 8 PM!
Of course, if the reason you’re not inviting me is simply that you don’t want to hang out, that’s perfectly fine. Not everyone has to be friends, as I often remind my youngest. But if you’re on the fence, please send me an invite! I promise I’ll reciprocate.
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