As the new school year approaches, it’s time to bid farewell to the carefree days of summer. While you may have had your share of worries during those sunny months—like your child forgetting their goggles or getting sunburned—these concerns pale in comparison to the anxieties that come with middle school. But fear not; not every worry is a monumental one. Some may be as minor as a fun-sized candy bar, while others could feel like a king-size chocolate bar looming over you.
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Concern: Your middle schooler may not enjoy the cafeteria food.
Greater Concern: They might find the vending machine too tempting. -
Concern: Your daughter misses an invite to a sleepover.
Greater Concern: She gets invited to a sleepover by a friend recently dealing with lice. -
Concern: Your son forgets to wake up on time.
Greater Concern: He sets his alarm to blare “Uptown Funk.” -
Concern: Your daughter starts using makeup.
Greater Concern: She “borrows” your favorite eye shadow and lip gloss. -
Concern: Nobody invites your daughter to the school dance.
Greater Concern: A boy does invite her to the dance. -
Concern: Your child may not qualify for Honors Algebra.
Greater Concern: She gets in, and you’re at a loss for helping her with the assignments. -
Concern: Your son becomes a couch potato after school.
Greater Concern: He expects rides to baseball, hockey, and football practices. -
Concern: Your daughter goes two weeks without washing her hair.
Greater Concern: She decides to dye it purple. -
Concern: Your son needs braces.
Greater Concern: He requires braces, a retainer, a palate expander, and night gear. -
Concern: Your tiny daughter might not make the cheer squad.
Greater Concern: She makes the team as a “flyer.” -
Concern: Your son declares his dislike for the flute.
Greater Concern: He suddenly finds trumpets appealing. -
Concern: Your daughter seems glued to her phone.
Greater Concern: She spends all her time texting someone named “Juliet.”
Feeling overwhelmed yet? You’re not alone; I share your fears. But remember when your kids started preschool? They thrived—and so did you! It’s time to put on our best faces. Even if we’re anxious about many things, our kids need not see it. My advice? Swallow those smaller worries in one bite and tackle the bigger ones with gusto. And yes, a little chocolate can help ease the stress, so keep some treats handy. Oh, and maybe stash away your beloved eye shadow!
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Summary
As the school year begins, parents face a range of concerns from lunch choices to social dynamics. However, many worries are manageable. By maintaining a positive attitude and focusing on what truly matters, parents can navigate this transition successfully while keeping their worries in check.