To my wise, patient, and forgiving friends who bravely dove into the world of motherhood long before I found myself on that path:
I owe you an apology for every time I complained about being tired. I had no true understanding of what exhaustion really felt like until I witnessed it firsthand.
I regret gifting you that book on crafting homemade organic baby food. I really do.
I apologize for thinking it would be fun for my partner and me to crash at your place just days before your due date. What was I thinking?
I’m sorry for calling you in tears over my relationship problems while you were juggling babies, toddlers, and everything else. Now I understand that finding time to chat with small children around is a Herculean task, and I appreciate how you somehow managed to listen.
I regret not being more mindful of your sleep deprivation. I should’ve sat beside you in silence, providing comfort instead of chatter.
I’m sorry for not bringing you meals or helping with chores. I should have taken care of your dishes, emptied your trash, or folded your laundry. I still remember the day you made me lunch while multitasking with your toddler and baking a cake. Are you even human?
I wish I had visited you more often. We could have enjoyed cozy nights watching TV in our pajamas after the kids were asleep. Instead, I thought you’d prefer to meet me downtown for margaritas.
I apologize for my moments of baby envy and for allowing it to overshadow my ability to be fully present in our friendship.
I’m sorry for being completely unaware of your children’s meal and nap routines.
Thank you for your unwavering support during my self-absorbed years, while you handled all the chaos of motherhood—changing diapers, cleaning up messes, and comforting little ones—while I focused on trivial matters.
I regret not expressing how incredible you are, day in and day out. I am genuinely grateful to still have you as a friend.
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In summary, I deeply appreciate my friends who embraced motherhood before me. I acknowledge my past insensitivity and extend heartfelt gratitude for your friendship and support.