Has the big 4-0 crept up on me? Definitely. I mean, when the cashier refers to me as “Ma’am,” it’s a clear sign of my age. But hitting 40 didn’t come with a grand revelation of wisdom—rather, it was a gentle nudge toward acceptance. Sure, I’ve traded in my glittery eyeshadow and miniskirts for more comfortable choices, but I still embrace my tiny braids with pride.
Looking back at old photographs, I feel a wave of nostalgia. I used to think my youthful face was chubby! How sweetly naive I was to believe that sharing a kiss in a dimly lit basement while Peter Gabriel’s “In Your Eyes” played on repeat meant we were destined to be together. And let’s not even discuss the questionable fashion choices, like that acid-wash double-breasted jacket with faux suede panels. Yikes!
Despite those cringe-worthy moments, I treasure the memories of my teenage years, even the times I fell hard for guys who didn’t deserve my affection. The hours spent rewinding and replaying songs like “If You Leave” and “Groovy Kind of Love” are irreplaceable. Now, as I guide my daughters through their own adolescence, I see how those experiences shaped me. I want them to make their own fashion blunders and explore their identities, even if it means having a crush on someone totally wrong for them. But please, let’s skip the cigarettes; my maternal compassion has its limits.
As we dive into the tumultuous tween years, I know these seven songs will provide comfort and guidance when I’m uncertain about how much to share or how to navigate challenging situations. Each one transports me back in time, reconnecting me with a carefree version of myself.
1. “Girls Just Want to Have Fun” by Cyndi Lauper
Through all the ups and downs, we remain true to ourselves.
“I come home in the morning light,
My mother says when you gonna live your life right?
Oh mother dear, we’re not the fortunate ones,
And girls—they want to have fun.”
2. “Don’t You (Forget About Me)” by Simple Minds
No matter the challenges we face, our bond remains strong… and so does our love for movies like Pitch Perfect.
“As you walk on by,
Will you call my name?
When you walk away.”
3. “Mr. Jones” by Counting Crows
In the quest for belonging, we’re all just trying to find our place.
“We all want to be big stars, but we don’t know why,
And we don’t know how.”
4. “Torn” by Natalie Imbruglia
This song serves as a reminder that heartbreak, while painful, is part of life.
“I’m all out of faith,
This is how I feel.
I’m cold and I am shamed,
Lying naked on the floor.”
5. “Don’t Speak” by No Doubt
Encouraging emotions is essential, even if I don’t fully understand them.
“Don’t speak,
I know what you’re thinking,
And I don’t need your reasons.”
6. “Right Here, Right Now” by Jesus Jones
Focusing on the present moment is what life is all about.
“Right here, right now,
There is no other place I want to be.”
7. “Thinking Out Loud” by Ed Sheeran
I often wonder if the songs my daughters love today will resonate with them as parents one day.
“I got the eye of the tiger, a fighter dancing through the fire,
‘Cause I am a champion, and you’re gonna hear me roar!”
Will my girls find solace in songs that echo their own experiences? I have no idea, but I know that I need to keep my Ed Sheeran playlist ready for the moments when we need to connect.
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In conclusion, the soundtrack of our youth can help guide us through the challenging moments of parenting. Embrace the music and the memories—they can be powerful tools in our journey.