As I meticulously arranged my son’s toys into vibrant bins, I took care to organize his books by language (my partner speaks to him solely in Spanish) and then by size. His collection of stuffed animals was even placed in a stadium-style seating arrangement. Once completed, I stood back and admired the transformation. This playroom would not only give him space to explore, but it would also accommodate his twin sisters as they grew older.
When he returned home from camp, I had a friend ready to capture the moment we unveiled his brand-new playroom. His excitement was palpable as he joyfully exclaimed, “Thank you, everyone!” He spent the next two hours absorbed in play while I tackled the chaos of unpacking our new home upstairs. That was Monday.
On Tuesday, he eagerly asked to go back downstairs. I felt like I had just scored a major victory in motherhood! But just five minutes later, he came back upstairs. While I was at the computer, trying to catch up on emails amidst the disarray, he climbed into my lap.
“Mama, I just want to hug you. Mama, I just want to kiss you. Mama, I just want to sit on your lap,” he said.
“Sweetheart, can you give me a few more minutes? I need to finish something,” I replied.
“No, Mama. Come downstairs and cuddle with me.”
It became clear that he didn’t want to play alone. He longed for my presence, to hear my voice, and to be close to me. The playroom, despite its charm, was not enough; he wanted to hug, kiss, and cuddle me whenever he felt like it.
So, I raised my hands in mock surrender and laughed, realizing there was no other choice. I joined him downstairs and promptly dozed off on one of the cozy bean bag chairs. I was soon awakened by affectionate hugs, kisses, and the occasional bump from his playful antics. Those small knees may not stay small for long, and I know a day will come when my affection won’t be his top priority. But that day is not today.
In this moment, no toy or magnificent playroom can compare to the love and attention he craves from his mother. I built my son a playroom, but ultimately, all he wanted was time spent with me.
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Summary: In this heartfelt reflection, a mother shares her experience of creating a vibrant playroom for her son, only to realize that what he truly desires is the warmth of her presence and affection. Despite the alluring toys and organized space, the bond between mother and son takes precedence over material possessions.