When my mom celebrated her 40th birthday, I took it upon myself to bake eight buttermilk cakes for a backyard gathering. At just 13 years old, I envisioned each cake gracing one of the eight tables we had set for our guests, with my mom receiving the grandest of them all, adorned with lit candles.
I devoted an entire day to this baking endeavor, using flour from the sifter in our vintage Hoosier cabinet and a handheld mixer. As soon as one cake was placed in the oven, I began working on the next. After the last cake cooled, I meticulously frosted and stacked them, two by two. I recall the hours spent on my feet, the ache of fatigue creeping in as I pondered whether eight cakes might be excessive. And indeed, they were—by the end of the party, half of them remained untouched.
This baking experience stands out vividly in my mind as I reflect on my journey as a birthday cake baker. Fast forward to now, at 47, and I’ve crafted many cakes for various occasions. For example, when my sister Lily turned 10, we created a cake that we floated down a river—an idea inspired by Tasha Tudor’s story, Becky’s Birthday. For my college friend, Dan, I attempted a tiered chocolate cake that ended up toppling over. During a celebration for my dad’s 60th in Ireland, I made a cake without measuring cups or a recipe, relying solely on intuition in an unfamiliar AGA oven. For my kids, I’ve fashioned treasure chest cakes, soccer ball cakes, and fire truck cakes. The highlight was for my husband’s 50th, when I crafted a massive cake topped with lemon frosting and fresh raspberries, the candles lighting up the table like a miniature bonfire.
As I navigate this midlife phase—17 years into marriage and halfway through raising our boys—I often reflect on my accomplishments and unfulfilled dreams. There are times when I think, “This year feels overwhelming; maybe I should just buy a cake.” But then I remind myself that homemade birthday cakes have been a cherished tradition throughout my life.
So, I pull out my well-worn cake recipes for each birthday celebration. I cream the butter and sugar, separate the eggs, and gently fold in soft-peaked egg whites. I tailor each cake to suit the occasion, even if my 13-year-old is now satisfied with a simple treat—gone are the days of crafting excavators or pyramids to delight a toddler’s imagination.
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In summary, baking homemade birthday cakes holds immense significance for me, serving as a heartfelt way to celebrate the people I cherish.