I have a confession: I’m not the best at navigating social media. I have a personal Facebook page, a professional one, a Twitter account, and an Instagram, yet I often struggle to keep up with them. Why is that? My life revolves around the whims of a spirited toddler, an erratic schedule, and the unpredictability of daily life. Although these platforms are accessible on my phone, I consciously avoid them around my child, prioritizing presence over digital distractions. I want her to learn the importance of being present, without being bombarded by the chaos that fills my feed. While I appreciate the cat memes and cute bunny videos, I don’t want her to stumble upon the latest from shows like Game of Thrones or The Walking Dead.
Recently, a close friend expressed disappointment over my apparent absence from their Facebook updates. This conversation left me feeling hurt and a bit frustrated. Just because I don’t like your photos, comment on your statuses, or share your memes does not equate to a lack of affection or concern. It simply reflects my chaotic life and the occasional oversight. Your posts might get lost in the shuffle of my feed, and I want you to know that my silence is not a sign of disinterest.
I recognize that social media has transformed the landscape of friendships. When you share milestones like moving into a new home or enjoying a brunch, it’s often a way to foster connection and stay close to loved ones. We all crave acknowledgment, and I understand how it feels when your heartfelt posts go unnoticed. It’s easy to think that “likes” translate to support or love, but that idea is misleading. It’s a modern construct that echoes high school dynamics—an endless cycle of seeking approval and fitting in.
I genuinely care about you and your life—your achievements, your family, and your dreams. Social media has become so saturated with the expectation of engagement that it often dilutes the true meaning behind those interactions. A lack of likes shouldn’t be mistaken for a lack of care, and I’m sorry if my absence suggested otherwise. Life gets busy; I might be at the park with my daughter or tackling dinner prep during the day. That doesn’t reflect how I feel about your posts or our friendship. Sometimes, the only time I can check in online is in the restroom, and I doubt you’d want to have a heart-to-heart in that setting.
So, how about we find a middle ground? Instead of relying on Facebook to keep each other updated, let’s make a conscious effort to communicate more directly. Texting, calling, or even getting together in person can foster a more meaningful connection. I truly value our friendship and want to show that care beyond the digital world.
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In summary, the absence of online interaction does not diminish the strength of our friendship. Life can be chaotic, and it’s essential to communicate in ways that truly reflect our bond.