“Mom, can I buy a bikini?” My 12-year-old daughter’s voice carried a touch of hesitation.
As I surveyed the vibrant swimwear on display, my gaze flitted across racks of neon colors and various styles. Some looked too revealing, while others appeared overly extravagant. None would have been my choice back in the day.
Flashbacks of my own childhood flooded my mind—oversized t-shirts draping over modest one-pieces, the anxiety of showing too much skin, and the nagging feelings of inadequacy about my body. I remember worrying about my shape and how I might be perceived.
However, my daughter possesses a confidence I lacked at her age. She embraces her body, which is fit, healthy, and beautiful. As she undergoes the rapid changes of adolescence, she meets them with positivity. She is a talented swimmer who simply wants swimwear that reflects her joy in the water. To her, bikinis are just “cute and fun.”
The narrative around swimwear only gains significance if I choose to make it an issue. My perspective on her clothing choices will influence how she views herself while wearing them. If I express support, it will empower her; if I criticize, it could lead to long-lasting self-doubt. I am acutely aware of the impact my words can have.
I understand the world will one day cast judgment on her beauty and body. Friends, advertisements, even social media might tell her that she should feel ashamed or cover up. But today, that’s not happening—not on my watch.
I turned to her bright, eager eyes. “Of course! Let’s find a really fun one for you!”
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In summary, embracing our children’s choices and encouraging their confidence is vital. As parents, we have the power to shape how they see themselves, and it’s our responsibility to support them positively.