As a parent, it’s natural to feel a little overwhelmed as your children transition from toddlers to teens. Here are 25 signs that you might be having a tough time embracing these changes.
- You still celebrate your 4th grader’s potty achievements with high-fives and stickers, believing there’s no such thing as excessive positive reinforcement.
- The sound of your child’s favorite character, Caillou, brings a lump to your throat.
- You’ve proudly displayed your son’s middle school book report on the refrigerator.
- You steer clear of Gymboree, especially on Gymbuck Tuesdays, as the sight of those cute outfits feels like a heartache.
- Even for a brief outing with your partner, you pack snacks in adorable little baggies.
- You find yourself justifying the use of your old diaper bag as a fashionable purse.
- On long road trips, you sneak in Disney classics like Finding Nemo, insisting that no one is ever too old for animated adventures.
- When holding your dog, you instinctively start to rock, despite it being a full-grown golden retriever.
- You still fret about choking hazards, cutting your daughter’s grapes into quarters even at her middle school dance.
- A community car seat check makes you emotional, making you consider visiting even if it’s been years since you used one.
- You convince yourself that HGTV designers are using plastic Spider-Man and Elmo plates, so you cling to yours.
- You refer to your tween’s hangouts with friends as “playdates.”
- Your pantry still stocks goldfish crackers and fruit snacks alongside more grown-up snacks like Doritos and Powerade.
- A few baby blankets remain in your linen closet, just in case your 16-year-old needs one someday.
- You assure your 6th grader that he doesn’t have to sit on Santa’s lap but suggest a quick photo next to him instead.
- You still ask for kids’ menus at restaurants despite your kids devouring entire pizzas for breakfast.
- A stray Leap Frog toy might still be in your home, ready for the hypothetical preschooler visitor.
- You ask a group of tweens if anyone needs a potty break before leaving, even though they’re all glued to their iPhones.
- Your teen’s bookshelf still has Dr. Seuss classics next to popular series like Divergent and The Hunger Games.
- You attempt to convince your family that the next big vacation destination is “The Land of Make Believe.”
- You recently asked your son’s high school friends to lower their voices as if they were still in elementary school.
- You suggest a thrilling family outing but somehow end up at a petting zoo.
- You remind your eighth grader to “Look both ways” before crossing the street, while trying to hold his hand.
- You might still carry a four-pack of crayons in your purse, even while touring colleges with your kids.
- You can’t help but feel emotional about the changes happening, often reminiscing about the simpler days.
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In summary, if you relate to any of these signs, it’s perfectly normal. Embracing the transition from childhood to adolescence is a journey filled with nostalgia, humor, and love.