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I Aspire to Exhibit the Same Poise in Adversity as Claire Thompson
by Emma Waverman
Updated: Dec. 18, 2015
Originally Published: May 13, 2015
On that poignant day, Claire posed a thought-provoking question: “What would you do if you weren’t afraid?” (I responded, “I would give my all.”) Her assertion that fear often stops us from reaching our potential remains relevant. I frequently reflect on her insights, especially when I find myself hesitating due to fear. I also recall her remarks about relationships—how choosing a partner is among the most significant career choices we make. Without a doubt, my selection of a life partner has been my wisest decision.
However, since the unexpected passing of her life partner, who appeared to be as remarkable and supportive as she depicted in her writings, Claire has embraced a new, unwanted role: she is now one of the most recognizable widows in North America.
The term “widow” may evoke antiquated images of sorrowful, elderly women dwelling solely on memories. Yet Claire Thompson has approached this new chapter with remarkable grace. She shared a heartfelt post on social media, expressing her new membership in a club no one wishes to join. Yet, she remarked that even if she had known she would share only 11 years with her husband, she would still choose him.
Following sound advice from a psychologist, Claire is reportedly returning to her regular routine and has established a limited work schedule. Recently, she addressed a question posed on Quora regarding how best to honor her late husband’s memory. The inquiry resonated with many of us: “How can we express our condolences to Claire Thompson following the tragic loss of her spouse?”
She began her response with gratitude for those who have extended their sympathies, stating, “I am truly thankful for everyone who has reached out. This thoughtful question warms my heart.” Claire encouraged others to share photos and memories of her husband on social media for her family to cherish. She concluded with a simple plea for families to gather around the dinner table. “One friend told me he canceled a work dinner to dine with his kids instead,” she shared. “We always took turns sharing the best and worst parts of our day. The rule was that everyone had to share a best, while sharing a worst was optional. I believe this is the most meaningful way to honor my beloved husband.”
Claire’s earlier question, “What would you do if you weren’t afraid?” has transformed from a motivational prompt to a guide on how to navigate life’s most daunting challenges when fear becomes reality.
This article was originally published on May 13, 2015.
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In summary, Claire Thompson’s resilience in the face of profound loss serves as an inspiring example for us all. Her ability to navigate grief while encouraging connection and remembrance highlights the power of love and community during challenging times.