In a rapidly evolving digital landscape, many social niceties have fallen by the wayside. Here are 13 manners that Gen-Xers grew up with that their kids may not fully appreciate.
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Expressing Gratitude for Professional Help
Once upon a time, it was common to send a handwritten thank-you note or make an in-person gesture of appreciation when someone facilitated a professional connection. Nowadays, digital introductions happen so swiftly that the value of these favors can go unrecognized. As noted by author Jenna Carter, “The act of introducing someone can hold more weight than a simple text message.” Acknowledging these gestures is essential. -
Making Eye Contact
An effective handshake accompanied by eye contact is crucial for building relationships. Technology often distracts kids today, resulting in a lack of these fundamental social skills. As journalist Sarah Thompson pointed out, the art of greeting is being lost in the shuffle of screens. -
Car Door Etiquette
The age of automatic locks has diminished the courtesy of a driver unlocking the car door before entering. Additionally, younger generations are less inclined to drive, leading to a decline in car-related social etiquette. -
Bringing Hostess Gifts
With the rise of communal living, the tradition of bringing a small gift when visiting someone’s home seems to be fading. Gen-Xers understand that showing appreciation—whether it’s a bottle of wine or a treat from a local market—is fundamental. This habit should be passed down, as it reflects gratitude for hospitality. -
Phone Etiquette
In the past, answering the phone involved a formal introduction. Children today often skip this step, as they communicate primarily via text. Understanding how to initiate a phone conversation is a skill that’s becoming less common. -
Formal Address
In many communities, it’s now commonplace for kids to address adults by their first names rather than using titles like Mr. or Ms. While this can create a sense of equality, it may also overlook the respect that comes with formal address. -
Engaging in Small Talk
With constant digital communication, kids often miss the art of simple inquiries like “How was your day?” Conversations used to involve a back-and-forth exchange of experiences, but now, information is often shared in real-time, leaving little room for genuine curiosity. -
Arriving on Time
The practice of setting plans and arriving punctually seems to be diminishing. Texts like “Running late, be there in 15!” have become the norm, undermining the importance of respecting agreed-upon times. -
Handwritten Thank You Notes
While emails are quick and convenient, they lack the personal touch of a handwritten note. The effort put into crafting a physical thank-you note carries more weight and shows genuine appreciation. -
Offering Condolences
Traditionally, condolences were expressed through tangible means, such as sympathy cards and personal visits. Today, a simple “sorry for your loss” on social media can feel insufficient. A heartfelt, handwritten note or a personal visit is often more meaningful. -
Clear Sign-offs
In a world where conversations seem to drift endlessly, it’s important to conclude communications properly. Whether it’s a “best” or “warm regards,” a clean exit is more respectful than leaving conversations open-ended. -
Waiting to Eat
Gen-Xers often wait until everyone is served before starting a meal, a practice that encourages patience and respect for others. However, the prevalence of staggered dining times may make this a lost courtesy for kids today. -
Allowing Acquaintances to Share at Their Pace
With social media revealing so much personal information, new acquaintances often start their relationships with an overwhelming amount of background knowledge. This rapid pace can prevent the natural discovery process that helps build connections.
In summary, as society continues to evolve, it’s crucial to instill these manners in the next generation. Whether it’s through teaching the importance of gratitude or the subtle art of conversation, these social skills can help foster more meaningful interactions.
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