When I entered the world in 1973, long before newborn hearing screenings became standard, my mother had an instinct that my hearing was not quite right. Despite the pediatrician’s dismissive reassurances, she refused to give up. Her determination paid off when I was diagnosed with profound hearing loss at just 14 months old.
My parents were unfamiliar with deafness and faced a significant decision: should they teach me sign language or focus on spoken language? They ultimately decided on the latter, believing that while I could always learn to sign later, the opportunity to learn to speak was time-sensitive. They chose the more challenging path, knowing it offered the greatest long-term benefits for my independence.
My mother took a leave from her teaching career—her absence extended even longer when my sister was born deaf three years later—to ensure I received daily speech and language therapy. Her skills as an educator were invaluable as she worked with me at home. For her, parenting was never simply about enjoyment; every moment was a teaching opportunity. If I wanted a cookie, I had to make a sound, even if it was just a simple “coco.”
Once I began school, my mother filled countless notebooks with correspondence to my teachers, expressing her concerns and providing updates. Though communication was more labor-intensive before the advent of email, the preserved notebooks serve as a tangible record of my early years, capturing everything from milestones to family happenings—like my paternal grandmother’s passing.
Thanks to my mother’s unwavering dedication, I was integrated into the public school system and continued speech therapy through high school. My sister and I were encouraged to explore the world and to advocate for ourselves. I eventually attended college and graduate school, married, and started a family of my own. Now, I draw upon the lessons learned from my mother as I navigate challenges with my children.
Perseverance is just one facet of what my mother instilled in me. It is because of her efforts that I can express my gratitude with a heartfelt “Thank you.”
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In summary, my mother’s commitment to my development and her relentless pursuit of the best path for me shaped the person I am today, allowing me to face challenges head-on.