I came across the concept of “crying rooms” last night, and it piqued my interest. At first glance, it seemed trivial, but after a moment of reflection, I recognized how beneficial such a service could have been during various challenging times in my life.
The Mitsui Garden Yotsuya hotel in Tokyo has unveiled 12 dedicated crying rooms exclusively for women—an aspect I find both sexist and a questionable business decision. These rooms are designed to provide comfort, featuring cozy sheets, tissues that feel as soft as cashmere, warm eye masks, makeup remover, and a selection of emotional films aimed at tugging at your heartstrings. Count me in!
Reflecting on my past, I remember when my mother was diagnosed with aggressive cancer. For nine long months, I watched her health decline until she was gone. Living in another country made it difficult to visit her frequently, but I did my best to balance my family, job, and the emotional toll this situation took on all of us. That year was incredibly tough, and the sadness only intensified after her passing.
During that time, I struggled to find a private space to express my grief. I often had to seize moments to cry, which were rarely private. I shed tears in my office with the door locked, only to be startled by the phone ringing. I cried silently on the train, staring out the window, and in the shower where my sobs would go unheard.
I have young children who were aware of my sadness, but I didn’t want to overwhelm them with the rawness of my grief. My husband, too, tried his best to support me but wasn’t equipped to manage the depth of my emotions. I yearned for a designated space to release all of that pent-up sorrow, and a crying room with soothing sheets, soft tissues, warm eye masks, and sad films would have been ideal. My husband would gladly have taken care of the kids while I took time for myself. Traveling to Tokyo might be excessive, but if I could find something local for around $85, I would absolutely give it a try. Honestly, I could still use it today. One condition, though: I would want control over the film selection, and you can bet I wouldn’t choose Forrest Gump, which is on their list.
Here are some films I think would be much better suited for a crying room:
- Terms of Endearment
- Longtime Companion
- Ordinary People
- E.T.
- Life Is Beautiful
- 12 Years a Slave
- And the entire series of Parenthood.
So yes, I would eagerly embrace the concept of a crying room. It sounds absolutely wonderful.
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In summary, the idea of a crying room resonates deeply with many, especially during difficult emotional times. It provides a dedicated space for healing, reflection, and the necessity of crying without the fear of judgment or interruption.