The global Royal Baby Watch has concluded, as Kate and Will have welcomed a gorgeous baby girl to their family, joining older brother, George. Like many others, I couldn’t help but gasp at the first glimpse of the little one. She’s truly adorable.
But even more striking is Kate herself, elegantly dressed in heels and a white and yellow frock. How on earth does she pull that off? Sure, she has a full team of hairstylists and makeup artists at her beck and call, but let’s be real—she just gave birth to an eight-pound, three-ounce baby. And somehow, just ten hours after delivery, she looks like she just left a luxurious spa retreat, with a newborn as a bonus. It’s astounding!
I can’t fathom how a makeup artist could’ve made me look remotely presentable a mere ten hours post-birth. Not even with layers of concealer, a serious body shaper, and maybe a small animal sacrifice or two. Just not happening. Ten hours after I welcomed my child, I was still struggling to pee without tears. And don’t even get me started on bowel movements—let’s leave that topic alone.
I remember gingerly navigating the chilly hospital floor, with a maxi pad the size of a crib mattress held in place by those charming mesh underwear every new mom knows all too well. Sitting down was a strategic operation. I was immensely grateful to whoever thought to freeze maxi pads for perfect ice packs—thank you, you are a true hero to mothers everywhere. Despite assurances that swelling would decrease after childbirth, I found myself puffier than ever. Seriously, I could have sported my husband’s sandals over my swollen feet. Heels? Nope, not a chance.
While many talk about the “new mom glow,” I looked more like a flushed version of the Stay Puft Marshmallow Man, complete with frizzy hair. One of my kids even asked why I still appeared pregnant, as if the doctor missed a baby. I might forgive them for that comment someday—maybe.
In stark contrast, Kate seems ready to grace a magazine cover or inaugurate a community playground. I don’t even look that good on a planned date night. But as stunning as she appears, part of me feels sympathy for Kate. The idea of being surrounded by a swarm of people right after giving birth, all while knowing the paparazzi await outside, is enough to make anyone squirm. No matter the caliber of pain relief she has access to (I wouldn’t be surprised if it involved some mythical ingredients), the reality of postpartum recovery is unavoidable.
I can only imagine that, while she stands there feeling achy and sore—possibly equipped with a diaper, a peri bottle, and extra comfy mesh underwear tucked away in her purse—she might wish to be at home, nestled with her new bundle of joy, while her young son adjusts to his new sister.
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In summary, while the world marvels at Kate’s post-baby appearance, the reality of childbirth remains a complex journey filled with challenges that many mothers can relate to.