In life, we encounter many challenging personalities—from rude drivers to inconsiderate shop staff. However, it’s often those closest to us—friends, family, and fellow parents—who can be the most difficult to deal with. When faced with passive-aggressive comments, use this guide to maintain your sanity and assert your boundaries:
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Comment: “I’m just really competitive.”
Translation: “I thrive on making others feel inferior to boost my ego.”
Response: “Actually, you’re just being rude.” -
Comment: “You’re lucky to wear a size Large; I struggle to find my size.”
Translation: “I’m skinnier than you, and I want you to know it. Look at my thigh gap!”
Response: “Your thigh gap is irrelevant.” -
Comment: “I’m Type A; it has to be done my way.”
Translation: “I have control issues stemming from dissatisfaction in my life.”
Response: “You mean ‘A’ stands for ‘arrogant.’” -
Comment: “Bless your heart.”
Translation: “I’m ready to gossip about you.”
Response: “Bless your attitude.” -
Comment: “I act this way because of my past.”
Translation: “I’m aware that my behavior bothers you, but I refuse to change.”
Response: “The real reason is simple—you’re just inconsiderate.” -
Comment: “I’m an INFJ, so…”
Translation: “I’m about to judge you.”
Response: “Sounds like you’re an ASSHOLE type.” -
Comment: “You’ve been busy lately.”
Translation: “You didn’t like my last social media post, and I’m feeling insecure.”
Response: “I don’t have time for negativity.” -
Comment: “This is triggering my OCD.”
Translation: “Your life is a mess, and I’ll be discussing it with others.”
Response: “Sorry, I’m triggering my ‘no asshole’ alert.” -
Comment: “I don’t mean to be rude, but…”
Translation: “I’m about to be rude.”
Response: “What you mean is you’re about to be inconsiderate.” -
Comment: “I hope everything works out for you.”
Translation: “I’m waiting for you to fail.”
Response: “What I really want is to give you a piece of my mind.”
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In summary, while dealing with difficult people can be frustrating, understanding their underlying messages can help you respond effectively. By asserting your boundaries and calling out negative behavior, you maintain your dignity and peace of mind.