I’m currently nine days post-partial hysterectomy. While my ovaries remain, my cervix, uterus, and Fallopian tubes are gone. The last week felt as though my insides had been jumbled around, then inflated with air and sealed up tight.
For too long, I had endured the chaos of my menstrual cycle—excessive bleeding, excruciating cramps, and debilitating back pain. My periods, initially lasting seven days, had extended to two weeks or more, leaving me exhausted. After consulting with my OB-GYN, who suggested a hysterectomy as an option to end the suffering, I agreed. I had my hands full with two sons and a stepson, and I wasn’t interested in adding more children to the mix!
I did my homework on laparoscopic hysterectomies, which promised less pain and quicker recovery. I prepared thoroughly, eating well, exercising, and even meditating to foster positive thoughts about my surgery. The testimonials from other women about the bliss of being period-free sounded irresistible—so I was all in!
However, despite my preparations, I wasn’t ready for the reality that awaited me after the procedure. Here are some key points to consider if you’re heading down this path:
- Post-Surgery Shaking: Awakening from anesthesia can feel like you’ve just completed a marathon. I was shaking uncontrollably and was given Demerol to help calm me down. I even found myself complimenting the nurses on their beauty—definitely an interesting post-op experience.
- Air Bloat: They fill your body with air during the procedure, and let me tell you, it’s not just gas! You’ll feel like a human balloon, and it will take time for your body to absorb it. Pain medication will be your best friend during this phase.
- Bathroom Struggles: You might find yourself spending 10 to 15 minutes just trying to urinate. Changing positions will be necessary, and having someone assist you can be incredibly helpful.
- Caffeine Dependency: If you’re used to coffee, jump back on it as soon as possible to avoid migraine-inducing caffeine withdrawal. I learned this the hard way!
- General Discomfort: Expect discomfort for several days. Standing up may feel like a precarious endeavor, but rest assured, nothing will fall out!
- Eating Challenges: After surgery, even the simplest foods could cause significant stomach cramps for me. Easing back into solid foods slowly is essential.
- The Poop Dilemma: This was by far my biggest hurdle. Constipation is no joke! I tried everything from stool softeners to fiber drinks, and even an enema. My husband ended up buying out the entire section of bowel remedies at the store—thank you, dear!
- Bloating Effects: You may notice a bit of a belly bump post-surgery due to bloating and inflammation. Loose-fitting clothes will be your best option during recovery.
- Support System: Ensure you have a reliable support person. My husband was a lifesaver, helping with everything from meals to personal care. His willingness to assist made a world of difference in my recovery.
In the end, I had parts of me removed that had long been sources of pain and frustration. I also gained a new perspective on my body’s incredible ability to heal. Nine days post-surgery, I am slowly returning to normalcy, with minor discomfort still lingering.
If you’re considering this journey, be gentle with yourself. Every experience is unique, and you may find that your recovery is different from others. Allow yourself to rest, accept help, and take the time you need to heal fully.
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Summary: A hysterectomy can be a daunting experience, but understanding the potential challenges can prepare you. From post-surgery shaking to the importance of a solid support system, being informed can ease the recovery process. Don’t forget to be kind to yourself during this transformative time.