As children grow, parenting evolves in delightful ways. Here are eight and a half reasons why having older kids can be such a rewarding experience.
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Bathroom Independence
Let’s start with the most liberating aspect: no more diaper duties! Your older kids can navigate the bathroom on their own, leaving you free from the challenges of diaper disposal. Of course, whether they remember to flush is a different story. -
Enhanced Communication
When your little one was a baby, all you heard were cries. Now, you can have real conversations. For example:
Child: “I’m not feeling well.”
At least you can decipher their needs now, even if they occasionally “forget” to mention school projects. -
Restful Nights
Gone are the days of sleepless nights. You can crawl into bed, say goodnight to your partner, and drift off. The joy of uninterrupted sleep is beyond words. -
Self-Sufficient Bath Time
“Time for a shower!” Now, when you say it, they actually hop in and wash themselves. Just a gentle nudge to remember the important areas is all it takes. -
Seatbelt Safety
Getting in the car has never been easier. Everyone can buckle their own seatbelts without the hassle of car seats. This is pure bliss—no more wrestling with complicated straps! -
Musical Freedom
The days of enduring the repetitive theme song from kids’ shows are behind you. Your radio can finally be yours again! Well, until they insist on playing “Shake It Off” on repeat, but it’s still a nice change. -
Meaningful Discussions
“Mom, what does this word mean?”
You can engage in enlightening conversations! Just be prepared for the playground lingo you never anticipated having to explain. -
Enjoying Hot Meals
No more juggling a plate while holding a baby! You can actually sit down and savor a warm meal. This is a luxury that comes with having older children. -
Buffet Duty
You can send your kids to the buffet line with their own plates. They might return with a mountain of dessert, but at least your food stays hot.
And the icing on the cake?
Child: “I love you, Mom.”
Response: “I love you too, sweetie.”
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In summary, having older kids opens up a world of independence, communication, and joy. From enjoying hot meals to meaningful conversations, the transition is both rewarding and refreshing.