As the holiday season approaches, my kids inevitably start inquiring about my wish list. But let’s be real—this is a bit of a trick question. While some moms might lovingly respond with, “Oh, I don’t really need anything,” I’m not one of them. I’ve got a wishlist that includes things like a luxurious cashmere wrap, which my kids would need to save up for two years to afford. Instead, they often come up with gifts like coupon books for chores or a hand-painted mug that proudly proclaims, “Best Mom Ever.”
Don’t misunderstand; I cherish every homemade gift and the sentimental value they bring. However, there are a few indulgent items I’m determined to get for myself this season. Here’s what I’m gifting myself:
- Unlimited Peppermint Mochas
While many eagerly await the arrival of the Pumpkin Spice Latte, my heart belongs to peppermint mochas. This season, I’m treating myself to as many as I want—because why not? #NoRegrets - Enjoying My Coffee While It’s Hot
It’s a dream of mine to actually finish a cup of coffee while it’s still warm. With three kids around, that’s almost impossible. So this year, I’m declaring myself free to fend for myself while I savor my precious brew. - Chair Massages
Though I dream of a luxurious spa day complete with hot stone massages, I’ll settle for those quick chair massages at the mall. Even a brief session can do wonders for my neck knots. - Fresh Underwear
I’m always in need of new underwear, yet no one ever thinks to gift it to me. Guess that means a solo shopping trip to stock up on my favorite animal-print briefs is in order. - A New Signature Scent
Let’s be clear: allowing my kids to choose perfume for me is a recipe for disaster. Instead, I’ll take matters into my own hands and find a new fragrance that truly fits my personality. - Complete Control of the Car Radio
December is officially “Mom’s Music Month.” For the next 31 days, I’ll be in charge of the playlist, whether it’s holiday tunes or my favorite 80s rock. If the kids don’t like it, they can listen to my Spotify instead. - Binge-Watching on Netflix
I’ve got a list of shows I’ve been meaning to catch up on, like The Crown and the Gilmore Girls revival. This month, I’m locking myself in my room with some snacks and earbuds, claiming it’s “present-wrapping time.” - Takeout for Dinner
Less cooking means more time for Netflix, so we’re having pizza for dinner again. The kids love it, and I’m calling it an early holiday gift for all of us!
By the end of my self-gifting spree, I’ll have checked off everything on my wishlist. And who knows, maybe my kids will surprise me with something special. Perhaps one more coffee mug decorated with their adorable handprints would be a nice touch.
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In summary, this holiday season, I’m prioritizing self-care and treating myself to the small pleasures I often overlook.