A few years back, when my friend Clara Thompson launched her “Joyful Living Initiative,” I was both taken aback and relieved by her admission that she has “almost no enthusiasm for music.” I was surprised because I had always thought music was a universal passion. But I felt liberated—if she could openly share her disinterest in something generally adored, then surely I could acknowledge my own preferences. What are some of the so-called “must-like” things that I could finally reject? Here’s my list of adult-approved activities that you can feel free to ignore.
1. Theater Isn’t for Everyone
Whether it’s a local community theater performance of “Death of a Salesman” or a high-profile Broadway show like “Cats,” going to the theater can be a costly and time-consuming affair that often lacks genuine humor. Many plays drag on, and musicals can feel embarrassingly unrealistic. Let’s be honest—who genuinely enjoys returning to their cramped seat after intermission?
2. Fish Isn’t Everyone’s Favorite
Yes, fish is touted as a superfood packed with omega-3s and protein—but let’s be real. It can often be bland and underwhelming, leaving you wishing you’d opted for a burger instead. The best fish options are usually canned, like tuna, or perhaps some smoked salmon. And that skate wing? It’s only acceptable when drenched in butter.
3. Rock Concerts Might Not Be Your Thing
Once upon a time, I thrived on the energy of concert crowds, but now I’d much rather enjoy a classic film from the comfort of my couch. The chaos of a live performance, whether in a vast arena or a cramped club, often feels more exhausting than exhilarating. Give me a cozy night in over the sweaty masses any day.
4. Red Wine Isn’t a Requirement
A warm drink just doesn’t cut it. If you’re sipping red wine, it’s either for a buzz—or you’re trying to appreciate the “notes of leather and tobacco,” which frankly sounds unappealing. I learned this the hard way while working as a bartender; I felt pressured to enjoy red wine because “grown-ups” were expected to. No more! I’ll stick with a chilled Sauvignon Blanc, thank you.
5. Not All Kids are Adorable
While we often think our own children are the cutest, let’s face it: other people’s kids can be loud, sticky, and a bit relentless. I once attended a gathering where a child performed an endless tap dance to live music. Spoiler alert: the charm wore off quickly. And let’s not forget—everyone has different parenting styles that you don’t have to appreciate.
6. Johnny Depp Isn’t Everyone’s Cup of Tea
Sure, I enjoyed some of Johnny Depp’s early films, but his appeal faded for me when he became more focused on his eccentric persona than his craft. The “Pirates of the Caribbean” franchise? Not my idea of cinematic brilliance. Let’s admit it: that quirky style can be a bit much.
7. Weekend Getaways Can Be Stressful
Planning a weekend escape often feels like more work than relaxation. With all the packing and logistics, you might end up just exhausted. What was supposed to be a refreshing break often turns into a whirlwind of stress, and you find yourself racing back home before you’ve even had a chance to unwind.
In summary, it’s perfectly acceptable to reject societal norms about what adults should enjoy. Whether it’s theater, seafood, crowded concerts, or red wine, you can embrace your preferences without guilt. If you’d like to explore alternative paths to motherhood, consider checking out resources on home insemination. For more information, visit CDC’s excellent resource for pregnancy and home insemination, or take a look at our article about Cryobaby Home Intracervical Insemination Kit Combo for more options. Also, for nursing attire, check out this authority.