When it comes to parenting, unsolicited advice can often feel as unwelcome as comments on a pregnant woman’s appearance. Believe it or not, most parents are acutely aware of their children’s behavior and truly don’t need a stranger weighing in. After five years in the parenting trenches, I’ve compiled a list of seven things I already know and really don’t need anyone else to point out.
- Yes, my baby is sockless. We’re outside in the cold. I’m fully aware of this situation. I’ve attempted to put socks on him three times, only to have him yank them off each time. I thought about using duct tape, but the looks I got when I tried that were even stranger.
- My clothing often resembles a sticker factory explosion. Chances are, when I leave the house, I have a sticker on my shoulder, Nutella smudged on my chin, a Cheerio stuck to my backside, and probably some snot here and there. Trust me; I know. Unless that Nutella is actually poop—then I’d like a heads up.
- I have more than two kids. Yes, I have three small children, and yes, my hands are quite full. I’m aware of this fact, thank you very much.
- Time flies. I know this all too well. One day, my kids will venture off into the world, and while I’ll feel immense pride, it will also be bittersweet. So when my two-year-old is throwing a tantrum in the parking lot because I won’t let her dive into a busy street, I’m not really in the mood for a reminder about how quickly they grow up.
- That snack isn’t ideal. I get that graham crackers aren’t the most nutritious choice for a baby, but I haven’t mastered breastfeeding while jogging yet. If I don’t get my little one out in the stroller with something to munch on, my sanity might just vanish.
- Playground disputes are manageable. Yes, I see that your daughter and mine both want the slide simultaneously. I believe they can sort this out without us stepping in every time.
- My daughter’s attire isn’t conventional. Who put you in charge of toddler fashion? I have zero issue with her wearing leopard-print pajamas to the library. I choose my battles wisely, and today’s was over her boots.
In conclusion, commenting on someone else’s parenting choices is usually not a good idea—unless you’re prepared to say, “You’re doing great!” Then feel free to share your thoughts.
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Summary: Parenting brings its own set of challenges and realizations that most parents are already aware of, making unsolicited advice often unnecessary. It’s important to navigate parenting with understanding and compassion, as everyone is doing their best.