Pregnancy brings a whirlwind of emotions, and while many find it challenging, I genuinely enjoyed my journey. However, I’ve spoken with numerous women who felt the opposite, and that got me thinking about the things I wish someone had shared with me during my own pregnancy experience.
1. Indulge Your Cravings
Yes, you heard that right—embrace those cravings! During my first pregnancy, I was obsessed with hearty foods: think giant sausage sandwiches and savory Italian beef. Initially, I felt guilty and tried to stick to healthier options. But guess what? I still left the hospital looking like I had just given birth. So go ahead, treat yourself; you’re creating a new life after all!
2. Your Superhero Cape is in the Wash
Many pregnant women continue their daily routines with gusto, but that doesn’t mean you have to. When you’re feeling overwhelmed, don’t hesitate to use your pregnancy pass to say no. Just tell others, “My superhero cape is at the dry cleaners.” It’s okay to take a break.
3. Embrace Secondhand Finds
I was adamant about buying everything new for my first child, but quickly learned that new items are likely to face all sorts of mishaps. Instead, consider secondhand items—perfectly fine, and a lot more practical for little ones. Just avoid new mattresses; bedbugs are a serious concern!
4. Don’t Hesitate to Ask for Support
I often felt awkward when seeking help during my pregnancy, thinking I needed to handle everything myself—errands, cleaning, and meal prep. In truth, it takes a community to raise a child, and there’s no shame in asking for assistance. Remember, it’s not just a saying; it’s a tried and true belief.
5. Enjoy Intimacy or Skip It
While I relished the intimacy during pregnancy, I also struggled with self-image. My partner reassured me that I looked stunning, which helped me feel desirable. When you feel attractive, it can lead to unexpected rewards in your relationship.
6. Invest in Maternity Wear
You’ll wear those maternity clothes for just nine months, so make them count! Enjoy the opportunity to wear designer pieces without worrying about sucking in your stomach. Plus, you can often resell them later.
7. Nesting is a Superpower
Nesting was, without a doubt, one of the highlights for me. I cleaned and organized my home like never before, which was surprising since I usually dread cleaning. Just know that this intense motivation may not last once the baby arrives!
Ultimately, while pregnancy can come with challenges—like weight gain, swelling, and late-night heartburn—it’s often the easier part of parenthood. Cherish this time when the focus is still somewhat on you. If you’re curious about fertility and family planning, check out our post on fertility boosters for men at Make a Mom. Also, if you’re trying to juggle work and parenthood, Intracervical Insemination offers valuable tips on managing that balance. For more insights on intrauterine insemination methods, visit Healthline.
Summary:
Pregnancy can be a fulfilling journey if you embrace your cravings, ask for help, and allow yourself to indulge a bit. Don’t shy away from secondhand items, and remember to invest in maternity wear that makes you feel good. Take advantage of nesting instincts and cherish the time while it’s still about you—before the real adventure begins.