Growing up in the vibrant 80s, I embraced the era’s music and pop culture. If you remember the thrill of MTV music videos, the humor of “You Can’t Do That on Television,” or owned a Trapper Keeper, we share a connection. I was the punk kid with green hair and combat boots, but now, my life revolves around baking—cookies, pies, and brownies galore. I might have lost my edge, but motherhood has reshaped my worldview and emotional responses, especially towards movies I once adored. Here are the top 7 films that have taken on new meanings since becoming a mom:
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Adventures in Babysitting
As a kid: This film was a thrilling blend of babysitting escapades, college crushes, and adventurous road trips.
As a mom: Watching it now sends chills down my spine. The chaos and danger in this story are the very reasons I never leave home without my children. -
Stand By Me
As a kid: The thought of embarking on a journey with friends, free from adult supervision, was exhilarating.
As a mom: This movie is a nail-biter! The potential dangers the kids face—from a menacing character to life-threatening situations—keep me on edge. It’s a source of anxiety that might just need therapy to unpack. -
Beaches
As a kid: Bette Midler’s music and the dream of becoming a Broadway star captivated me.
As a mom: The heartbreaking fate of Barbara Hershey’s character hits far too close to home. I couldn’t even bear to watch it while pregnant; it was just too much. -
The Breakfast Club
As a kid: This film felt revolutionary—raw and real, it resonated with my youthful spirit.
As a mom: I now wonder why schools have eliminated shop classes. The potential risks that come with teenage recklessness give me pause, and I cringe at the thought of my child trying to achieve at all costs. -
The Karate Kid
As a kid: The idea of an older mentor teaching me karate seemed fantastic.
As a mom: There’s no way I’d let my sons spend time alone with a man who isn’t family. And those expensive gifts? Major red flags. -
Back to the Future
As a kid: Doc Brown and time travel were the epitome of childhood fantasies.
As a mom: The implications of a teenage boy hanging out with an older man raise serious concerns. Plus, the thought of my child seeing my teen self? No, thank you! -
The Goonies
As a kid: This film was the ultimate adventure—friendship and treasure hunting made it unforgettable.
As a mom: Where were the parents during all this? By the time Chunk called for help, shouldn’t there have been an Amber Alert? The danger they faced is unimaginable.
Motherhood is not just a role; it’s a fundamental part of who I am. It shapes my thoughts, actions, and perspectives in ways I never anticipated. I often wonder how film critics like Gene Siskel viewed movies after becoming parents.
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In summary, the films that once delighted me now carry weighty emotional baggage, reflecting my growth as a mother.