I’m always willing to say sorry to my kids when I mess up, but in some situations, I stand firm in my choices. Here are five things I won’t apologize for:
1. Denying Their Requests for My Phone
They can plead all they want, but I won’t give in. My phone is not a toy; it’s a valuable tool that I rely on for work and personal communication. Handing it over just opens the door for potential chaos, like accidentally posting something embarrassing on social media or making random purchases. I’ve seen them misplace their own belongings, including their pants—seriously, how do you lose your own pants? If they can’t keep track of their clothes, I’m not risking my phone’s safety in their little hands.
2. Being True to Myself, Regardless of Their Opinions
I want my kids to embrace their individuality, so I refuse to feel bad about being myself. Whether it’s my taste in music, fashion, or even my enthusiasm, I won’t tone it down just because it might seem lame to them or their friends. I won’t hesitate to turn up the music and dance in the kitchen, and if they think I’m embarrassing, I’ll happily shout my love for them at drop-off, reminding them to be proud of who they are, quirks and all.
3. Expressing Disappointment When Necessary
I experience a range of emotions as a parent, from pride to annoyance. When I’m genuinely disappointed in their actions, I believe it’s important they understand that feeling. I want them to recognize their potential and know when they’ve fallen short. Shielding them from disappointment isn’t my style; feeling that sting is part of growing up. It’s about learning that actions have consequences and that they need to take responsibility for their choices.
4. Not Always Picking Up After Them
I’m their mom, not their personal assistant. If they forget their glasses on the table or leave their homework scattered around, I’m not rushing to deliver these items to school. They have the ability to be responsible, and part of that is learning the hard way. If they miss out on something due to their own forgetfulness, so be it. These are lessons that teach them to be accountable.
5. Keeping It Real About Life
In a world that often celebrates participation over achievement, I want my kids to understand the value of hard work. They may receive praise from others, but I’ll ensure they know that effort is crucial for success. Life will present challenges, and I want them to learn to face these obstacles head-on. It’s all about developing resilience and understanding that growth comes from overcoming difficulties.
Some may view me as a tough parent, but I balance these lessons with a healthy dose of fun. Sure, I have my quirks, like being protective of my phone, but I make sure my kids have plenty of laughter and joy in their lives. They’ll likely grow up embracing their own unique weirdness—just like their mom.
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In summary, I’m a parent who believes in teaching valuable life lessons while maintaining a sense of fun and authenticity. My approach may not be conventional, but it’s rooted in love, responsibility, and the desire to see my children grow into strong individuals.