Before I transitioned to being a stay-at-home mom, I spent years as an educator, manager, and eventually the owner of various daycare facilities. While each center has its unique culture, several universal truths resonate among those who have worked in early childhood education. Here are the key points:
1. We Truly Care for Your Children as If They Were Our Own (But We’re Not Trying to Replace You)
Despite popular belief, early childhood educators earn a modest salary. We often work with limited resources and face a lack of respect compared to our counterparts teaching older grades. We’re in this profession because we genuinely love children—along with the glitter and the inevitable bleach stains on our clothes. There’s a special connection formed when we help clean up after your little ones. However, we understand our place; you will always be their primary caregivers.
2. Please Keep Your Sick Child at Home
We understand the struggle—your boss just doesn’t get it, and your child may seem fine after a rough night. However, sending them to school after illness puts both staff and classmates at risk. Childcare workers frequently come down with every bug that circulates, and it’s a challenge we face daily. If you can keep your feverish child at home, we would greatly appreciate it. Trust us, sending them in just for us to call you back within hours is not ideal.
3. Your Appreciation Means the World to Us
The days can be long when caring for a room full of energetic toddlers who express their gratitude in ways that often involve bodily fluids. While we love our jobs—who else gets to color and mold Play-Doh during work hours?—the demands can be overwhelming. When you take the time to express your gratitude, it makes a significant difference. And if you bring us snacks? Well, we may just start following you home!
4. We Understand When Your Child Gets Hurt (And When They Are the Ones Hurting Others)
Breaking the news to a parent that their child has been hurt in our care is never easy. We feel a deep sense of responsibility for every incident that occurs, and if your child is the one causing trouble, we empathize with you as well. We are parents too, and we know how difficult it can be to receive such news. Just know that it’s never our intention to spoil your day with bad news.
5. We Want to Build a Relationship with You
While we’re always eager to discuss your child during drop-off or pick-up, we also appreciate conversations about life beyond daycare. We know your child’s preferences intimately—their favorite stories, their quirky habits—but we’d love to learn more about you too. Engaging in mutual sharing strengthens our connection, and when you inquire about our lives, it’s refreshing. We promise we have interests beyond finger painting and reading stories! After your child’s time with us, feel free to reach out for a coffee; we know how to unwind after hours.
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In summary, engaging with your child’s preschool teacher can create a positive environment for both you and your child. Understanding their perspective, expressing appreciation, and fostering a relationship can enhance the experience for everyone involved.