My journey into the world of breastfeeding twins truly began when I made my way down from the hospital room to the NICU for a 6 AM feeding session with my daughters. A kind nurse encouraged me, saying, “Your daughter consumed all two ounces of the breast milk you pumped for the 3 AM feeding. Keep it up!” I was astonished. This tiny four-pound baby had guzzled a full shot glass of breast milk—a task we had struggled to achieve with formula. I realized breastfeeding wouldn’t be a walk in the park.
At times, nursing twins felt utterly exhausting, but like any aspect of motherhood, you adapt to what works best for you. My kids would have been fine either way, but I’m grateful I persevered. Here are some lessons I picked up along the way:
1. A Newfound Respect for Cows
While breastfeeding can be an incredible bonding experience, managing two babies nursing at different rhythms made me empathize with cows. I spoke to other mothers who cherished feeding both babies simultaneously, but that wasn’t my experience.
2. The Twins vs. THE TWINS
Having breastfed both twins and a singleton, I can confirm that my breasts were impressive while nursing my daughter, but with twins, it was a whole different level. My modest B cup transformed into a Dolly Parton-sized situation—let’s just say, I had no idea bras came in size F! Sensitivity was also amplified, to the point where my husband learned to keep his distance to avoid being squirted in the eye.
3. Super Boob Powers
The initial phase of nursing was the most challenging. After dealing with a clogged duct that sidelined my right breast for six days, I discovered the strength of my left breast. It became the sole source of nourishment for both babies, and at its peak, I joked it could have supported the entire population of Rhode Island. Now, it hangs a little lower than my right side, a testament to its hard work.
4. Your Pump Becomes Your Best Friend
When I mentioned my intention to breastfeed twins to another mom, her immediate advice was to get an industrial-sized pump. While she likely meant “hospital-grade,” the sentiment was clear. Many twins are born prematurely and often can’t nurse efficiently at first, making pumping essential for ensuring both babies are fed. During those first weeks, I was inseparable from my pump, which allowed me to monitor my milk supply and binge-watch a lot of movies in the process.
5. Don’t Hesitate to Bring in Backup
Compared to my arduous pregnancy, nursing twins was somewhat easier, but managing milk supply for two can be daunting. It was a huge relief when my mom could step in for occasional formula feedings, enabling me to catch a few hours of sleep or enjoy a dinner out with my husband. While I would have loved a freezer stocked with breast milk as I had for my singleton, those breaks were crucial for my sanity.
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In summary, breastfeeding twins presents unique challenges and rewards, from the physical demands to the emotional connections. Embrace your journey, whatever it may look like.