Every mother occasionally finds herself in need of support. Sure, a team of helpers and a fully stocked bar would be fantastic, but let’s focus on the essentials. When faced with the chaotic challenges of parenting, try these five empowering mantras to help guide you through.
1. This too shall pass.
Your little one just decided that the family pet needed a trim? Your mother-in-law just called to express her disbelief over your less-than-spotless home? Or perhaps your neighbor dropped the bomb about bedbugs after your kids had a sleepover?
This too shall pass. Sometimes, the best response is to smile through the chaos and remind yourself that whatever frustration you’re encountering is temporary.
2. If it leads to a great story, it’s worth it.
Are you contemplating a spontaneous trip with the kids to a new place? Or maybe your child is begging you to build a pillow fort and have a cozy night in?
Go for it! Ask yourself if these quirky moments could become cherished memories. Even if it doesn’t involve sharing secrets and braiding hair, you’ll end up with fantastic stories to share as your kids grow up. These are the moments that turn into family legends, so embrace them.
3. Be courageous. Be daring.
It may sound cliché, but during those tough moments when life demands your attention, this mantra is invaluable. Whether you’re standing up for your child against bullying or making critical health decisions on their behalf, you need to be courageous.
Motherhood often subjects us to judgment over our choices, draining our time, resources, and energy. In these instances, summon the bravery to be the mom your child needs, while also being bold enough to prioritize your own well-being.
4. Will I care when I’m 80?
Thinking of getting that trendy tattoo? Great! But will it still matter to you in your 80s? If the answer is “no,” then go for it. Want to drop out of the PTA despite the backlash? Ask yourself if you’ll care decades from now.
This reflective exercise can help you maintain perspective and focus on what truly matters.
5. IDGAF.
Every now and then, you just need to throw your hands in the air and declare, “I don’t give a f***.” This isn’t about being inconsiderate; it’s about recognizing your limits.
When your patience is stretched thin, it’s completely okay to say “no” without guilt. Embrace it, pour yourself a glass of wine, and enjoy that moment of defiance. You’ve earned it!
Putting life’s fleeting dilemmas into perspective can significantly simplify decision-making. By the time you reach your 80s, you’ll likely only care about the essential things in life—love, joy, kindness, and laughter—definitely not trivial matters like whether you baked those 98 cupcakes for the school dance. Just let it go!
Whatever mantra resonates with you (maybe even something like “Namaste”), use it frequently. Whisper it to yourself, shout it out loud—whatever empowers you to stand strong and fierce. Because you absolutely can.
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Summary:
Motherhood can be chaotic, but using empowering mantras can help navigate its challenges. From recognizing that difficulties are temporary to embracing spontaneous adventures, these affirmations can guide you in making decisions that prioritize both your needs and your family’s happiness.