The idea of juggling a newborn alongside two other kids can be daunting. I spent countless nights worrying about how I would manage, but now that my third child has arrived, I want to highlight three compelling reasons why adding to your family doesn’t have to be as scary as it seems.
1. You’ve Gained Perspective Over Time
When you reach the point of having three kids, you genuinely begin to understand the saying, “this too shall pass.” It’s a phrase I’ve heard countless times, often from nostalgic mothers reminiscing about their own experiences. During the sleepless nights of caring for my first newborn, I couldn’t fathom the idea that my exhaustion would eventually fade. The same held true for baby number two; I thought my previous survival was merely a stroke of luck. Yet, with a third child, I find myself reminding myself that the chaos is temporary. Whether it’s the nighttime wake-ups or the clutter that seems to multiply, the knowledge that you’ve navigated these challenges before gives you a sense of reassurance. You’ll have those nights of restful sleep again, and yes, one day you will find yourself dressing up for a date night, feeling like your old self once more.
2. Every Small Victory Feels Monumental
When you’re raising three kids, accomplishing even the tiniest task feels like a major achievement. Did you manage to get all the kids’ teeth brushed and the baby fed? You deserve a medal! Completing a simple craft project, even if it’s just threading cereal onto a pipe cleaner, instantly makes you feel like the parent of the year. I remember my first solo trip to the pharmacy with all three little ones. I envisioned myself at a Mother of the Year gala, despite the reality of wrangling a toddler and navigating a baby seat while hoping my oldest would not accidentally knock over a display. Just getting everyone out and back in one piece felt like a grand triumph.
3. An Older Sibling Can Be a Lifesaver
Believe it or not, having a newborn with two older siblings can actually be easier than managing a newborn with just one older sibling. While it may sound counterintuitive, having an older child around provides a surprising amount of support. When I had just one older child, I was their sole entertainer, and it was overwhelming. Now, my two older children can engage each other, which takes some pressure off me. The eldest has even become genuinely helpful, not just in whimsical ways, but in practical matters like keeping an eye on their siblings while I’m busy. Yes, there are squabbles, but I remind myself that “this too shall pass.” The sibling bonds will strengthen, and I’ll have the joy of watching their relationships flourish as they grow.
So take heart, soon-to-be mother of three. While some may portray it as a daunting task, I can assure you that it’s a rewarding journey filled with its own unique joys.
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Summary
Having a third child can be an exhilarating yet overwhelming experience. However, with perspective gained from previous children, the ability to celebrate small victories, and the support of older siblings, managing a growing family can be much more attainable than you might think.