As my daughter embarked on her inaugural preschool year, I have no doubt she has absorbed a wealth of knowledge. From learning where to store her bag and coat each day, to mastering the art of waiting patiently for bathroom breaks, she has experienced a myriad of lessons. She has learned the importance of washing her hands before snacks and after outdoor play, as well as fundamental skills like recognizing the alphabet, singing songs, and enjoying story time. The year has been filled with creative activities like painting, crafting, and building, along with lessons about nature and the animal kingdom. Not to mention the essential social lesson of sharing (oh, the sharing!). And let’s not forget her exposure to sign language.
While my daughter has flourished in preschool, I too have gained valuable insights over the past year—insights that shape my journey as a mother to a child with unique communication needs. These lessons may not be as overt as her accomplishments, but they are vital to my growth as a parent.
1. Communication Goes Beyond Words.
My daughter has a speech delay. With only a few words and signs in her repertoire, I often find myself concerned about how others perceive her communication abilities. Initially, she entered preschool with a mere five words. As the year progressed, I have been truly amazed by her determination in speech therapy and her commitment to learning. However, what stands out to me even more is the way she and her peers connect without using words. I’ve observed her radiant smile and infectious laughter, whether she’s playing alone or engaging with others. The children have shown me that friendship speaks a universal language that transcends verbal communication.
2. The Brightening Power of Friendship.
Midway through the school year, a new classmate joined, and I saw my daughter embrace her with open arms. They shared numerous hugs, and my daughter frequently mentioned her name with joy. It was heartwarming to witness her excitement about seeing this friend at school. Another boy in her class has also been a source of support for her, ensuring she feels included and cared for. These early friendships highlight how even young children can be sources of comfort and connection. They remind me that friendships illuminate our lives in profound ways.
3. Love as a Daily Affirmation.
At the end of each school day, while parents linger in the hallway, the teacher offers a simple yet powerful reminder to the children: “Remember, I love you.” This daily affirmation reinforces a sense of belonging and worth in each child. It serves as a poignant reminder that, despite the challenges life may present, love is a powerful force that can uplift us. This message, delivered by someone who isn’t family, resonates deeply and illustrates the importance of sharing love with others.
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Summary:
In reflecting on my daughter’s first year of preschool, I have learned that communication transcends spoken words, the value of friendship brightens our days, and love should be affirmed regularly. These lessons, while less tangible than those my daughter has learned, are foundational in my parenting journey.