Can we discuss that whirlwind of emotions and experiences known as postpartum? For many individuals who are pregnant with their first child, there’s a mix of excitement and anxiety about how to bring their little one into the world. By the time the baby arrives, most are somewhat prepared for the delivery process. However, the postpartum phase—when your body is recovering from the incredible feat of childbirth—can be full of unexpected surprises. Many of these realities aren’t covered in books, and others could use a deeper explanation.
To gain insight into what to truly expect after giving birth, we asked individuals who have been through it. Here’s what they revealed about the postpartum journey.
It Can Get a Bit…Messy.
There’s no sugarcoating this experience.
- “I was completely unprepared for how different I would feel. I’ve never felt as uncomfortable as I did after giving birth. You’re bleeding and practically wearing a diaper, but rest assured, you WILL return to your normal self. You might have a little leakage when jumping on a trampoline, but it’s manageable!” — Sara K.
- “Take that stool softener! The first bowel movement is going to be rough.” — Jamie L.
- “After giving birth, that first trip to the bathroom felt like I was giving birth again! Trust me, you’ll want Dermoplast spray, Tucks pads, and a bag of frozen peas.” — Mia R.
- “Those hospital underwear have a mind of their own! I learned this the hard way when I was sitting on the toilet, and suddenly, a sizable blood clot flew off my massive pad. My husband was understandably alarmed!” — Jenna T.
Pain is Inevitable.
Unfortunately, discomfort is part of the process.
- “No one prepared me for sitting on a doughnut during my first week postpartum due to swelling. It was no joke!” — Olivia N.
- “If you have any sutures from tearing, please don’t mistake them for a thread and pull!” — Rachel P.
- “You might hear about sitz baths being relaxing. They’re not quite what you think—just a basin of warm water with salt to dip in. It’s more awkward than soothing!” — Lila W.
- “Breastfeeding may come with cramping. I experienced cramping while nursing my third child that was more painful than my first 40 hours of labor. And the bleeding—oh, the bleeding! Always sit on a protective pad while nursing.” — Emily J.
- “Epsom salt baths can aid in your recovery. Once your doctor gives you the green light, indulge yourself!” — Tara L.
C-Section Recovery is a Whole Different Beast.
- “After my C-section, I tried to manage pain based on how I felt, which was a mistake. I woke up in excruciating pain and learned to stick to my medication schedule.” — Sophie M.
- “No one warned me how tough C-section recovery would be. I thought it would be easy, but it was brutal!” — Mia S.
- “A C-section is major surgery, even if everyone treats it like a routine procedure. You’ll want to rest, not entertain visitors.” — Clara D.
- “You can’t drive for several weeks post-C-section. Plan ahead for those early pediatrician appointments!” — Grace R.
Awareness of Postpartum Mood Disorders is Crucial.
- “I didn’t think I’d be at risk for postpartum depression. I wanted this baby so much—how could I feel this way?” — Lily H.
- “Postpartum anxiety can be just as real as depression. It’s normal to worry a bit, but intrusive thoughts or constant fear isn’t.” — Zoe T.
- “After a miscarriage, I was shocked that my body reacted as if I’d delivered a full-term baby. It was an emotional struggle.” — Ava B.
- “You may experience unprecedented exhaustion and emotions. Make sure you’re taking care of your mental health during this time.” — Emma K.
Breastfeeding and Postpartum Can Be a Challenge.
- “The only thing that helped soothe my sore nipples was breast milk! Nothing else worked.” — Mia J.
- “Mastitis can start with chills, which confused me. Don’t ignore any unusual symptoms.” — Kate B.
- “If you think something isn’t right, trust your instincts. We had to address my baby’s lip tie, and it was a challenging few days.” — Eliza C.
- “Breastfeeding affected my libido, and I worried I’d never feel the same again. Thankfully, things returned to normal once my baby weaned.” — Katie P.
- “I wish someone had warned me how difficult breastfeeding could be. It wasn’t as natural as I expected!” — Rachel G.
Additional Facts to Keep in Mind:
- “Did you know baby girls can be born with a period? I had no idea!” — Lisa A.
- “Postpartum acne is real, and it can appear all over your body. It’s frustrating but will eventually clear up.” — Cate M.
- “You may lose hair after childbirth, which can be emotional, even if you’re prepared for it.” — Anneliese J.
- “I wish I had been assertive with my partner about needing help. I didn’t need him to just relax with the baby; I needed him to take care of everything else!” — Mandy W.
At the end of the day, the struggles are worth it.
“After giving birth, I thought, ‘Why would anyone do this again?’ But eventually, I realized it’s all worth it for the joy of having a child.” — Sara M.
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In summary, postpartum is a time filled with unexpected challenges and emotional complexities. Many mothers wish they had been better prepared for the realities of recovery, mood disorders, and the physical changes that come with childbirth. However, with knowledge and support, navigating this period can lead to beautiful experiences with your new baby.