As I observed my youngest packing for his final year of college, I couldn’t help but feel a mix of pride and nostalgia. While I experience the familiar pangs of an empty nest, I’ve come to appreciate this new chapter in life. Although I miss certain aspects of having school-aged kids, there are countless reasons to celebrate their adulthood.
- The tedious annual ritual of filling out forms with the same details year after year is behind me. Back in 2010, it was all done by hand—duplicate and triplicate copies, no less!
- No more writing checks for lunch tickets, textbooks, fees, donations, classroom supplies, bus passes, ID cards, and PTA dues.
- I also no longer need to write checks for booster clubs, activity fees, uniforms, costumes, yearbooks, overdue fines, or even cookie dough sales.
- The days of preparing lunches only to find them untouched in their backpacks—because “I just wanted chips, Mom”—are over.
- I can finally say goodbye to the chaos of carpools.
- After 13 years of waking my son up for school each morning, he now manages to get himself up for college. It’s a proud moment!
- I no longer waste money on school supplies that went unused, like those pink erasers or endless packs of paper. And I still wonder where all that lottery funding went.
- I don’t miss the small talk in the parking lot with other moms comparing our kids’ achievements.
- Buying two dozen mechanical pencils for my son, only to have him lose them within days, was a cycle I should have broken long ago.
- The clothes I bought for my daughter that she wore only once—only to revert to her comfortable school sweatshirt and jeans—are a thing of the past.
- PTA meetings were often painful, but the guilt of skipping them was even worse. I often wonder why I felt obligated to attend.
- Back-to-school nights felt pointless, especially for parents of overachieving kids.
- Parent-teacher conferences could be nerve-wracking, feeling as though I was being judged for my child’s imperfections—though that anxiety faded after second grade.
- Annual checkups, complete with shots and more forms, are no longer a headache.
- I no longer drive by schools wondering if my child was the lonely one along the fence while others played.
- The memories of head lice outbreaks are thankfully behind me.
- Smelly sports uniforms are a distant memory, especially the joys of washing football gear.
- Middle school angst and drama are not missed at all.
- I can finally say goodbye to the endless cycle of colds, coughs, and flus.
- Homework? Not my problem anymore!
- The pressure of auditions, tryouts, and contests is thankfully behind me.
- Waiting for prom invites and helping my kids navigate those social waters is a chapter closed.
- First-day jitters and the infamous senioritis should be classified as real conditions in any handbook.
- The stress of college applications, essays, and fees is something I’m glad to have left behind. The Common App and its myriad requirements were overwhelming.
- The anxiety surrounding college admissions felt like a legitimate reason to seek comfort in a Xanax prescription—thankfully, those days are behind me.
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In summary, while the journey of parenting has its challenges, watching my children grow up has opened doors to new experiences and freedoms that I wholeheartedly embrace.