Remember the wave of romantic comedies starring Hugh Grant in the 1990s? “Four Weddings and a Funeral” is now over two decades old and remains a standout, primarily due to its clever writing and emotional depth. Here are 12 insights that might inspire you to revisit this classic on your next Netflix binge.
- Embrace Your Wedding Phase
Charles finds himself at the second wedding, quizzically asking, “So, who’s getting married today?” The cycle of weddings during your 20s and 30s can feel infinite (and costly!), but you’ll come to cherish those moments when they’re behind you. You’ll particularly miss the chance to attend formal occasions without having to juggle parenting duties. - Some People Are Perpetually Late
It’s likely that Hugh Grant’s character is still running late to his kids’ milestone events. In fact, a sequel titled “4 Stepping-Up Ceremonies and a Graduation” would be fitting. - “Oh, Fiddlesticks” for Last-Minute Dress Dilemmas
When you’re scrambling to put on a fancy dress, “Oh, fiddlesticks” can succinctly capture the frustration. - Marriage as a Conversation Filler
The line “Marriage is simply a way to avoid awkward silences” aptly explains why some couples, seemingly mismatched, decide to tie the knot. - Finding the Right Partner Takes Time
Not everyone marries their ideal partner on the first try. For example, Carrie ties the knot with Hamish before realizing Charles is her true match. - The Joy of Hats
Hats are delightful accessories that deserve a comeback. And Scarlett’s bold orange and purple ensemble from the first wedding is a fashion statement we could all benefit from. - The Perfect Description for Wedding Dresses
The term “big meringue” perfectly encapsulates the style of wedding dresses from the 80s and early 90s. - Every Wedding Needs a Character Like Gareth
With his witty remark, “It’s bloody Brigadoon!” Gareth proves that every wedding needs someone to lighten the mood. - Weddings Unearth Old Memories
Weddings often pull up bittersweet memories. Think of Charles seated among his exes or the awkward encounter with Duckface. - “What on Earth!” for Heartbreak
The phrase “What on Earth!” is a great way to express your feelings when your beloved chooses someone else instead of you. - Know Your Worth
When Charles first meets Carrie, Fiona suggests she’s out of his league, which proves to be untrue; remember that no one is truly unattainable. - Cherish Being Adored
Regardless of marital status, we should all aspire to echo Gareth’s sentiment: “May we all, in our old age, proudly say, ‘I was adored once too.’”
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In summary, “Four Weddings and a Funeral” offers timeless lessons about love, relationships, and the quirks of life—all wrapped in humor and heart.