As I notice the traits of my mother taking root within me, I find joy in the realization that this quirky, vibrant woman is becoming a part of who I am. It’s like a delightful transformation, as if I’m experiencing a reverse pregnancy of sorts. While she didn’t always meet my expectations, which is perhaps the essence of motherhood, the lessons she imparted have remained with me, and I cherish them.
Here are some invaluable insights, passed down from my mother to me, and now to my daughter—and to you, if you wish.
- “A good hairstyle should enhance your face. It’s not about how long your hair is, but its shape. Anyone can have long, limp hair—why settle for that?”
- “It’s different from, not different than!”
- “Always bend your knees when you land! Your joints will thank you.”
- “When putting on a shirt, pull it straight down. If you shove your whole face through, you’ll ruin the elastic!”
- “When you have an itch, scratch around the wound instead of over it. Otherwise, you’ll leave a scar.”
- “You’ll spoil your dinner!”
- “Disney films offer a false sense of childhood. Instead, let’s watch Sweeney Todd, The Demon Barber of Fleet Street together. We can make popcorn!”
- “The secrets to life? Basting every ten minutes, a good cleaner, and a touch of blush.”
- “Oh, I’m not hurt that you prefer store-bought dressing to my special blend of oil, vinegar, paprika, and salt-from-my-own-tears recipe.”
- “Keep your eye on the ball and never look left or right.”
- “Rules aren’t all meant to be followed; only a few truly matter.”
As I approach my fortieth birthday, I finally appreciate the wisdom in bending the rules of addition.
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In summary, the lessons from my mother are timeless and continue to resonate in my life and that of my daughter. They remind us to embrace our individuality, to look at life from different perspectives, and to navigate the world with wisdom and a touch of humor.